HunnyBooBoo26
Aug 10, 2012, 09:39 PM
So I'm in love with two men and don't know what to do.
The first guy I've been with for 5 years, we meet in college. We've had our ups and downs but recently we moved across the country and I thought that since we were no longer in school he wouldn't be so lazy but he is. It drives me nuts that he can't pick up after himself or help with any of the house work unless I get on his case about (it took 3 weeks to get him to mow the lawn) but besides our little fights we do have fun together when he's not sleeping that is.
The new guy in my life is great. He's very considerate of others. He's always there for me no matter what and he's understanding of the situation I'm in (he always tells me that he doesn't want to cause me pain so however long or whatever I choose he will understand). I mean the guy is donating bone marrow to a little girl that he's never met, that’s how amazing he is. I’ve never felt this way about anyone before.
The problem is if I do leave the first guy I have nowhere to go and I owe him so much and still love him but I can't stop thinking about the new guy. I've never even lied to him about anything, I don't think I could if I tried.
Please help, any advice would be helpful.
The first guy I've been with for 5 years, we meet in college. We've had our ups and downs but recently we moved across the country and I thought that since we were no longer in school he wouldn't be so lazy but he is. It drives me nuts that he can't pick up after himself or help with any of the house work unless I get on his case about (it took 3 weeks to get him to mow the lawn) but besides our little fights we do have fun together when he's not sleeping that is.
The new guy in my life is great. He's very considerate of others. He's always there for me no matter what and he's understanding of the situation I'm in (he always tells me that he doesn't want to cause me pain so however long or whatever I choose he will understand). I mean the guy is donating bone marrow to a little girl that he's never met, that’s how amazing he is. I’ve never felt this way about anyone before.
The problem is if I do leave the first guy I have nowhere to go and I owe him so much and still love him but I can't stop thinking about the new guy. I've never even lied to him about anything, I don't think I could if I tried.
Please help, any advice would be helpful.