This is my sad story ,
We met in the 2nd year in high school (in the same class) and became close friends. We shared ideas and got to know each other very well. Friends thought we were going out but I blatantly refused. So my mates and hers tried to hook her up with a guy (I got jealous... ). A friend of hers informed me about it and advised that I act fast before it was too late. My lack of experience led me to doing nothing thinking she would be mine if we were meant to be together (never had a girl).
She started going out with the new guy discreetly. I being so emotionally fragile at that time started an affair with one of her friends due to her constant seductions (though it ended in the final year). We barely talked since then.
Things began to change so fast. I got into a university which was coincidentally close to her home. We started calling each other like old times.I took our anniversary celebration as an opportunity and asked her out. She lied to her parents just to go out with me (this, I got to know somehow). We had a good time and I can never forget the moments when we both shyly made eye contacts. She said she was tired and I took her to my room.When we got there, she ignored all the chairs in the room an sat on my bed (still didn't make any approach). She indirectly asked for another outing the next day and yet still the fear of rejection championed my thoughts preventing me from telling her my dying affection towards her the other day.Am 21. Need help please!!

This is my sad story ,
we met in the 2nd year in high school (in the same class) and became close friends. We shared ideas and got to know each other very well. Friends thought we were going out but I blatantly refused. So my mates and hers tried to hook her up with a guy (I got jealous...). A friend of hers informed me about it and advised that I act fast before it was too late. My lack of experience led me to doing nothing thinking she would be mine if we were meant to be together (never had a girl).
She started going out with the new guy discreetly. I being so emotionally fragile at that time started an affair with one of her friends due to her constant seductions (though it ended in the final year). we barely talked since then.
Things began to change so fast. I got into a university which was coincidentally close to her home. We started calling each other like old times.I took our anniversary celebration as an opportunity and asked her out. she lied to her parents just to go out with me (this, i got to know somehow). we had a good time and i can never forget the moments when we both shyly made eye contacts. She said she was tired and I took her to my room.When we got there, she ignored all the chairs in the room an sat on my bed (still didn't make any approach). she indirectly asked for another outing the next day and yet still the fear of rejection championed my thoughts preventing me from telling her my dying affection towards her the other day.Am 21. Need help please!!!


You expressed your thoughts and feelings here, with strangers.

Now you need to tell "her" how you feel.

Otherwise, nothing will get resolved.

Dude! DO NOT live life with any regrets.. tell this girl your tru inner feelings man.. dude, the truth shall set you free... if you tell this girl how you feel, and it just so happens its not mutual on her part.. dude, who cares man.. a tleast you went for it and didn't flake out... I guarantee you this.. if you do not tell her your tru feelings and tell her how you feel about her.. there isn't going to be a day that you question yourself" why did i not approach her when i had the chance".. don't go down that road man... have confidence, don't be insecure... and go for it dude.. wish you the best man.