Samanthazepeda
Aug 9, 2012, 04:50 PM
Here is my situation: I am 17 turning 18 on the 24th and I'm starting college this fall only 3 days after my birthday.
Okay My sister is only a year older than me with a baby, and no future basically. But My dad caters to her like she's this goddess. He's baughten her 6 cars in the past 3 years (pathetic I know) and he's baughten me none. He pays her bills and diapers and all this stuff and me NOTHING.
I graduated on time, I'm starting college and all I have is a hand-me-down car that was my sisters that is leaking anti-freeze and won't even make it an hour into driving. He's making me even go off my moms income so I can get a pell grant for college, she only gets about 100$ a month and that's off her security and she's living with a friend in a mobile home.. my dad has such a ing heart right?.
I'm debating living with my mom because She needs the help, and she gives me the love and attention I need and Honestly deserve. I'd rather be poor and happy, then rich and sad. The thing is I'd have to start in the winter If I lived with her because she lives in price which is about 2 hours away. Should I just up and leave and have her help me figure it out? Or stay I don't know I'm so stuck. If I go up to price I have 500$ saved up (not much) but its enough to go on greyhound or the uta to get up to price. I just can't stay here anymore. I have to bite my tongue everyday so I don't say something I will regret. It'd just be nice to be appreciated for the good I've done but it never gets recognized it hurts. It really does. I just need some feedback, because Nobody I ask around here gives me advice.
Okay My sister is only a year older than me with a baby, and no future basically. But My dad caters to her like she's this goddess. He's baughten her 6 cars in the past 3 years (pathetic I know) and he's baughten me none. He pays her bills and diapers and all this stuff and me NOTHING.
I graduated on time, I'm starting college and all I have is a hand-me-down car that was my sisters that is leaking anti-freeze and won't even make it an hour into driving. He's making me even go off my moms income so I can get a pell grant for college, she only gets about 100$ a month and that's off her security and she's living with a friend in a mobile home.. my dad has such a ing heart right?.
I'm debating living with my mom because She needs the help, and she gives me the love and attention I need and Honestly deserve. I'd rather be poor and happy, then rich and sad. The thing is I'd have to start in the winter If I lived with her because she lives in price which is about 2 hours away. Should I just up and leave and have her help me figure it out? Or stay I don't know I'm so stuck. If I go up to price I have 500$ saved up (not much) but its enough to go on greyhound or the uta to get up to price. I just can't stay here anymore. I have to bite my tongue everyday so I don't say something I will regret. It'd just be nice to be appreciated for the good I've done but it never gets recognized it hurts. It really does. I just need some feedback, because Nobody I ask around here gives me advice.