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Karis93
Aug 9, 2012, 03:15 AM
I think my Ex is playing games but why?

When we first got together it was perfect
Then an aguement occurred, resulting in him going missing for the night
Soon after we broke up even though he wanted to marry and have kids!
We've been split up for 7 months I've seen him twice once he decided to talk to me because I started seeing someone else... he said don't be a stranger we can be civil maybe more.. he asked me were his kiss and cuddle is apprently he still misses me according to his friends.
He got with someone 2 weeks after we split recently we've texts but we were talking then the next day he said who is this I ignored him simply I knew he knew my number I ignored it then he said woops sorry wrong person! But why all this after 7 months I just don't understand he left with out any explination but still contact :S help me please! Its driving me mad he had a chance to sort it out but hasn't yet... or leave me alone.

The person he got with 2 weeks after kept trying messege me on Facebook and contact me asking me questions I let him know, he kept thanking me and telling me he's sorry for everything, I start a new job soon, I don't want this hanging over me gone on to long I never once got angry always let him get on with whatever he getting on with, he always seems to run back :(

Also sadly his ex died before I come along I supported him but we both got the blame!
He hurt me bad I told him what his friend said to me then he backed his mate up until I said that I have texts to prove it he said then he's met someone new he doesn't want me getting involved I never have I always sat back...

C0bra_M3nace
Aug 9, 2012, 04:14 AM
You need to type in complete words and sentences. It's really hard to even understand what this is about.

From what I've got, you're still contacting your ex. He's not playing games he's just not over you and you're not helping by contacting him back. Leave him be, let him move on with his life.

Karis93
Aug 9, 2012, 04:41 AM
You need to type in complete words and sentences. It's really hard to even understand what this is about.

From what I've got, you're stil contacting your ex. He's not playing games he's just not over you and you're not helping by contacting him back. Leave him be, let him move on with his life.

That's the thing, his the one contacting me all the time.

here2assist
Aug 9, 2012, 07:25 AM
If you examine all the posts on this site regarding exes you'll find that almost everyone suffers much more then they have to by remaining in touch with an old flame. An ending is finite and absolute. While there are some things we can't control in this world we most certainly have free will to choose who we accept into our lives. You're allowing this to happen. Close the door, lock it up and throw away that key. It's tough but one day you'll wake up and realize you're so much happier and better off. Think of this as a new beginning with exciting and endless possibilities headed your way.