Me and my ex broke up 7 months ago! But we still contact sometimes, he's the one who hurt me and didn't give me no awnsers of why he wanted to split he did it over the phone while with his friend apparently he regrets what he done but doesn't know how to sort it we were texting the other day then next day text me 'hey who's this' then I ignored him simply because I knew he knew it was me he said just tell me please so I did he said oh sorry wrong person! But is still asking how my job is if I'm with anyone how the family is I did truly love him, honestly thorght he was going be the one id spend rest of my life with! But people got involved :( but my gut feeling is he is going to come back!
I kept having dreams about him and they all come true apparently he broke down in frount of his best friend and said I shouldn't of let her go... I know he has played some games like when I started seeing someone he decided to get in contact... then had the cheek to turn around and say he seeing someone new doesn't want me getting in the way when I never had when we first split he come to get his stuff I didn't get angry or cry in frount of him, shall I go with my gut or just let go because I feel like he isn't letting me move on.If I do ask to meet him and talk he says no or his busy or I get ignored its like he wants to have a few drinks before he can chat I remember seeing him 2 weeks after we split up I couldn't face him or talk to him but it was like he wanted to talk to me but I just got really drunk instead I know not right idear but he hurt me a lot.

Do you think he's going to change the second time around? Do you really think the relationship will be any different?

He's contacting you and still is because you're letting him. You're not letting him move on properly. Leave him alone, even when he contacts you and let yourself and him move on.

Do you think he's going to change the second time around? Do you really think the relationship will be any different?

He's contacting you and still is because you're letting him. You're not letting him move on properly. Leave him alone, even when he contacts you and let yourself and him move on.

That's what I'm trying to say I don't reply all the time his the one who hurt me so isn't it fair to say, he should stop contacting me his the one not letting me go.

Thats what im trying to say i dont reply all the time his the one who hurt me so isnt it fair to say, he should stop contacting me his the one not letting me go.

Give it time, he'll get the hint eventually.