chichi555
Aug 7, 2012, 08:43 AM
Disclaimer: I’m sorry this is such a long post, but I really need someone to here me out and give some thoughtful advice. TY :)!
Here’s a little info about my relationships: I have never been in one. Yep… I have been single since the time I was born lol and I’m 17. But I guess I have learned to deal with it. Anyway, there have been some major changes this past school year (I was a junior). For the first time a guy that I liked actually liked me back (and the first time I had guys like me all together lol), but I guess I was sending the wrong signals, so we just stayed friends. Instead, he went out with a close friend of mine, which I had no problems with. And during that time, this boy and I would text each other, laugh in class together and just have fun like any normal friends would. I actually thought that I found a true guy best friend, but I guess not. Everything was cool until soccer season (which starts in Jan.) when he admitted that he still had feelings for me and that he liked me still and thought I was beautiful. Now, I’m not going to lie, I did think it was flattering and I kind of liked him back. But deep down inside I knew that the situation was wrong so I never acted upon it (You can’t love a GF and like another girl at the same time, you know? Especially, if that girl’s your GF’s friend). OK to make long story short, this situation kind of got Dramatic (w/ a capital D), per se. I told my friend (the girlfriend), she got mad at him, but took him back the next day (yeah, I don't know what he told her, but I think it's a lie). This boy and I eventually agreed to be nothing more than friends but up until now, I have not said a single word to him since school ended (partly because I was sick…) I feel like he lied to not only my friend but to me in a way. He created all this unnecassey drama and excused it as being an “emotional person” (basically,he couldn’t decide if he liked me or if he loved her __). What’s worse was the fact that my friend actually took him back. I know people have different ways of dealing with situations but… come on, really? Because of him, I’m just done with boys and their idiotic ways. I know not all boys are like this but, I think it would be best if I let God give me someone instead of searching for them( sorry to throw religion in here). But was I wrong to give distance and to cut him off like that? I really do need advice… thanks for reading!
P.S. I don’t normally go around asking people for advice but I figured this would be the best place :)
Here’s a little info about my relationships: I have never been in one. Yep… I have been single since the time I was born lol and I’m 17. But I guess I have learned to deal with it. Anyway, there have been some major changes this past school year (I was a junior). For the first time a guy that I liked actually liked me back (and the first time I had guys like me all together lol), but I guess I was sending the wrong signals, so we just stayed friends. Instead, he went out with a close friend of mine, which I had no problems with. And during that time, this boy and I would text each other, laugh in class together and just have fun like any normal friends would. I actually thought that I found a true guy best friend, but I guess not. Everything was cool until soccer season (which starts in Jan.) when he admitted that he still had feelings for me and that he liked me still and thought I was beautiful. Now, I’m not going to lie, I did think it was flattering and I kind of liked him back. But deep down inside I knew that the situation was wrong so I never acted upon it (You can’t love a GF and like another girl at the same time, you know? Especially, if that girl’s your GF’s friend). OK to make long story short, this situation kind of got Dramatic (w/ a capital D), per se. I told my friend (the girlfriend), she got mad at him, but took him back the next day (yeah, I don't know what he told her, but I think it's a lie). This boy and I eventually agreed to be nothing more than friends but up until now, I have not said a single word to him since school ended (partly because I was sick…) I feel like he lied to not only my friend but to me in a way. He created all this unnecassey drama and excused it as being an “emotional person” (basically,he couldn’t decide if he liked me or if he loved her __). What’s worse was the fact that my friend actually took him back. I know people have different ways of dealing with situations but… come on, really? Because of him, I’m just done with boys and their idiotic ways. I know not all boys are like this but, I think it would be best if I let God give me someone instead of searching for them( sorry to throw religion in here). But was I wrong to give distance and to cut him off like that? I really do need advice… thanks for reading!
P.S. I don’t normally go around asking people for advice but I figured this would be the best place :)