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bellablaze
Aug 7, 2012, 03:52 AM
The husband is a very good looking man who makes millions a year and is very popular and well known due to his looks and controversial antics. His father is also very well known. His job has him out of home a lot.

He is married with a 4 year old toddler but since he BEGAN DATING his wife, he has been cheating on her with groupies, sexually harassed girls, had sex random girls and colleagues, and was publicly known as a jerk.
He also does drugs and gets suspended from work but his wife is unaffected by his cheating or drugs and is always partying with 6-10 friends at the bar and clubs ESPECIALLY AFTER BABY AND MARRIAGE

But he strongly maintains the image of a family man in public and through interviews and through his twitter.
He always talks about them on twitter and through public interviews or kisses his wife in the crowds so his admirers and people think he’s a changed family man.

He even got his career history documentary filled with his family moments, including getting his wife interviewed about how she changed him, when it was supposed to be a career highlights documentary, and when they both know that he sleeps around!

But the most contradictory part is this. He gets mad at his admirers posting pictures of his daughter and has made himself look like a man who hides his family from the camera, but in reality his wife has sold all her party pictures, pictures of her daughter to the websites..
In fact his wife takes her own photos through her camera/phone and has posted the entire pictures on the website. Even her makeup business photo-shoots are on the net; her daughter’s pictures are on the net.

His wife especially goes to meet celebs like Snookie, Freddie Prinz JR , takes photos with them and attended all high profile parties when their child was just 7 months or 1 year old. And spends money on pricey LV bags

The wife has photographers stationed at her parties or has her friends taking her photos at the street, club, and bar. She keeps taking photos in various model like poses ,In a toy car at a mall and he claims he hides his family!

Another thing he claims his wife helps him deflects haters when the woman left twitter because people were mean to her, lied that she deleted her Facebook after people were mean to her there when in reality she made her account private!

They also claimed how he changed after marriage and child when the truth is that he still does drugs, is high half of the time, recently got suspended from work due to drugs, has mistresses, trashed his ex-girlfriend calling her a wh0re on radio after she cheated on him and recent news is that he’s got a girl pregnant who gave birth to his baby..

What the hell is this going on? Why so much lies and contradicting each other?
What sort of wife is this woman who is never affected by his cheating for 5 years of marriage and 3 years of dating and drugs issue and is always photographing herself and partying?
And why is he always lying?
she's stayed with him even though he said he was single while they were engaged. And she IS happy.
how can someone be in denial for 7 years?
And oh IF SHE LOVES HIM SOO MUCH HOW IS SHE LETTING HIM DO DRUGS, HAVE SEX WITH OTHERS AND IS ALWAYS PARTYING HAPPILY?
I THOUGHT ONE WHO LOVES BLINDLY CANNOT SEE YOU IN SUCH A MESS?

JudyKayTee
Aug 7, 2012, 04:08 AM
What the hell is this going on? Why so much lies and contradicting each other?
What sort of wife is this woman who is never affected by his cheating for 5 years of marriage and 3 years of dating and drugs issue and is always photographing herself and partying?
And why is he always lying?
shes stayed with him even though he said he was single while they were engaged. and she IS happy.
how can someone be in denial for 7 years??
And oh IF SHE LOVES HIM SOO MUCH HOW IS SHE LETTING HIM DO DRUGS, HAVE SEX WITH OTHERS AND IS ALWAYS PARTYING HAPPILY?
I THOUGHT ONE WHO LOVES BLINDLY CANNOT SEE YOU IN SUCH A MESS?

So where are you in this situation? One of the parties involved?

"Why so much lies?" I have no idea. I don't know if the parties know. Maybe because they can lie and get away with it.

And the rest of this - she stayed with him even though he lied about being married and she's hapy; she is in denial; she lets him do drugs, have sex, party.

You sound like the other woman trying to second guess the wife.

It would seem that both the husband and wife are happy or at least don't intend to dissolve the marriage. Would it work for me? Would it work for you? Obviously not.

Is it/should it be your concern? Doesn't appear so. You spent a lot of time on this, starting calmly and then cranking up to typing in caps (which is the same as shouting) at the end, pretty much losing control. Why?

bellablaze
Aug 7, 2012, 07:18 AM
Well can't I just get a reply related to the question instead of facing lame judgements?
Seriously other woman?

God I asked cousin and getting replies why how it concerns me?

J_9
Aug 7, 2012, 07:23 AM
Yes, how does this concern you. It's their life that they have chosen to live this way.

Homegirl 50
Aug 7, 2012, 08:05 AM
Why are you so concerned with this?
The husband sounds like a creep, why are you dogging the wife and why is this any of your business?

Cat1864
Aug 7, 2012, 10:20 AM
I will say that the only person I have any concern about in that relationship is the child. The adults sound like they are made for each other. Unfortunately there is a child who will end up raising her parents if they ever grow up.

Forget about why the adults act like they do. The answers probably boil down to 'because they can.' What you describe as their life-style is all too common for high profile couples. Actually, your post reads like tabloid journalism. It may not be a lifestyle many of us would choose, but it is their own.

If you want to be concerned about anyone (taking you at your word about your relationship to the couple), be concerned about the child. Encourage family members to treat her like any other child in the family. Give her a support system that isn't based on excess but love and self-discipline.

Fr_Chuck
Aug 7, 2012, 10:59 AM
It is your cousin and honestly none of your business, rich people often live like this. And their partners often stay and allow it because they have all of the money to deal with.

Are you just jealous of the money they have ?

bellablaze
Aug 7, 2012, 06:54 PM
It is your cousin and honestly none of your business, rich people often live like this. and their partners often stay and allow it because they have all of the money to deal with.

Are you just jealous of the money they have ?

NO Baffled by this lifestyle

Alty
Aug 7, 2012, 07:52 PM
I would really suggest you get a life of your own and stop butting into others lives.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/girl-guy-soulmates-691620.html

How many people's relationships are you nosing into, and why?

JudyKayTee
Aug 8, 2012, 04:52 AM
I would really suggest you get a life of your own and stop butting into others lives.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/girl-guy-soulmates-691620.html

How many people's relationships are you nosing into, and why?



Good catch - love the defensive attitude when asked.

I am relieved this person doesn't live in my neighborhood.

Homegirl 50
Aug 8, 2012, 08:33 AM
I think that woman has issues. She does not have a life so she obsesses over the lives of others