Hi guys,

About two weeks ago, I had sex with my significant other. She gave me a BJ after which, there was unprotected penetration for about a few seconds (5 -10 seconds maybe). A few minutes prior to us doing it, I peed heavily for about 2 times). Everything that followed was with a condom. I never even ejaculated inside her even with the rubber on as I have heard nasty stories of the condom breaking for some people. What concerns me a tad bit is that two days before we did it, she said she felt that her period was due since she felt sexually aggressive but up until now her period has not arrived. She tells me that there's nothing to worry about since she is "irregular" and she has been subject to a lot of stress, anxiety, and worries. She already has an 11 month old baby from a previous relationship. In addition, she's also lost a lot of weight these past few months. Should I be concerned? I've also heard stories about precum containing sperm but given that the length of time that we had unprotected penetration was only a few seconds, what are the chances? Take note that I urinated twice before she gave me oral and I penetrated her without a rubber which only lasted a few seconds. Need your input guys!

Cheers!

Anytime you have unprotected sex, even in your situation, there's a chance of pregnancy. Urinating doesn't really matter, and precum contains some sperm. "A few seconds" can end up being a cute, chubby-faced infant. The chances of pregnancy are slim, but they are there. If she misses her period again, she should take an hpt with first morning's urine.

One second in is all it takes, and it is most likely just one sperm that is needed.

If you were not using a condom that is all it takes. One entry is it. Why did you do it without a condom ( which of course still has a 3 to 10 percent failure)

Now you wait till her next period and see if it comes,

That's the problem guys. She says she's irregular. We'll see. What really confuses me is that she felt her period was due a few days before we did it and up until now it hasn't arrived. Well, I take that this is the "very definition" of women who have irregularity in their periods. She doesn't feel alarmed though. She knows her period will come.

She knows her period will come.
We're not so sure.

Oh well. Thanks for your help guys. This is stressing me out but let's see what happens. God bless!

oh well. Thanks for your help guys. This is stressing me out but let's see what happens. God bless!
Don't play adult games unless you are willing to be parents. Urinating doesn't work, and there is sperm in pre-c'um. All it takes is one very excited and eager sperm to do the job.

You can close this guys. She just got her period today. Thanks for all your help!

Not close, yet, it is a regular period or is it "light" if it is light and lasts only a day or two, she can still be pregnant.

And every once in a while, if sex is close to the period time, they will have that first period.

You are not 100 percent in the safe zone till the next period.

Bro, it is a regular period. It's not spotting or implantation bleeding if that's what you are trying to point out. I hope that answers your question.

if you also look at my original post, the sexual encounter took place 2 weeks before she got her period = ) Not 1 day, 2 days or even a week but two weeks.

if you also look at my original post, the sexual encounter took place 2 weeks before she got her period = ) Not 1 day, 2 days or even a week but two weeks.
That would be prime time for fertility.

THanks Wondergirl! Her period looks pretty normal as per her account. Believe me, she knows a normal period from spotting or implantation bleeding.

She can have a normal period and still be pregnant. Some women have normal periods throughout their pregnancies.

I'm really concerned that you are taking this so lightly. Does this incident at all make you think twice about having sex and then worrying if you are going to be a father?