jamesk12
Mar 5, 2007, 03:45 PM
Hi all,
I'm worried and would really love some intelligent opinions.
My girlfriend and I had sex yesterday, 9 days after her last period started, with a condom. About 20 minutes into the session, I checked out the condom and noticed that a little bit of white fluid was squishing around the shaft, under the condom. I had not had an orgasm (I'm 32, and I tend to know these things), but guessed it was precum and immediately stopped. It could also have been lube, as the condoms are pre-lubricated internally, but I couldn't tell and wasn't going to take the chance as it looked like semen.
I was able to have a full orgasm afterwards, externally.
Now my paranoia is that we were having sex for quite a while with what might have been precum in the condom, towards the base-- where it MIGHT have seeped out?! I played around with a fresh condom from the same brand, and it did have a LITTLE white residue on the inside, but what I experienced was more and in all reality was likely precum mixed with lube.
Am I being insane? Often times with sex issues, paranoia and anxiety get the better of us. Your thoughts would be greatly appreciated. I don't want to create a big scare and get her on Plan B if I'm just being stupid.
I have no real reason to suspect anything happened (no breaks, no ejaculation, no going flaccid inside), except for the white fluid around the base and the ease with which that could have come out the base.
Thanks in advance.
I'm worried and would really love some intelligent opinions.
My girlfriend and I had sex yesterday, 9 days after her last period started, with a condom. About 20 minutes into the session, I checked out the condom and noticed that a little bit of white fluid was squishing around the shaft, under the condom. I had not had an orgasm (I'm 32, and I tend to know these things), but guessed it was precum and immediately stopped. It could also have been lube, as the condoms are pre-lubricated internally, but I couldn't tell and wasn't going to take the chance as it looked like semen.
I was able to have a full orgasm afterwards, externally.
Now my paranoia is that we were having sex for quite a while with what might have been precum in the condom, towards the base-- where it MIGHT have seeped out?! I played around with a fresh condom from the same brand, and it did have a LITTLE white residue on the inside, but what I experienced was more and in all reality was likely precum mixed with lube.
Am I being insane? Often times with sex issues, paranoia and anxiety get the better of us. Your thoughts would be greatly appreciated. I don't want to create a big scare and get her on Plan B if I'm just being stupid.
I have no real reason to suspect anything happened (no breaks, no ejaculation, no going flaccid inside), except for the white fluid around the base and the ease with which that could have come out the base.
Thanks in advance.