lizzo
Aug 2, 2012, 11:53 AM
I have been reading these wonderful posts, but noticed some are over 4 years old. That doesn't matter, as this problem seems to be a continuous one.
I have a 30 year old son, who was always a difficult child. He had tourettes, and ADD, both, he says I fabricated to get SSI, when I was a single mom. I loved him the most, we were close. At age 14, he got a little brother, as I had remarried. He seemed thrilled. His life had gotten easier, he had friends, even a girlfriend. He graduated with a 4.0 from college and in 8 years time was a young millionaire with his own company. He seemed generous, sent me to see him twice in Italy, where he lives, sent my husband and son to Malta to visit, and helped us financially a few times. He soon married a wonderful Italian woman 8 years his senior.
After Christmas this year he started becoming beligerant and rude over the phone. He wanted all financial documents that I had, as I did his taxes for years.
He DEMANDED them NOW, or he would pursue a law suit against me. SMH, I sent everything.
Within a week latter, he called my husband, and told him he wanted no more contact with all of us, and this has been his stand every time I have tried to ask him why? I know he smokes hash, and probably does other drugs. He has also told my daughter in law vicious lies of how terrible his childhood was. She could intervene but doesn't.
I am hurt beyond words, and have health issues as well. I can think of nothing that I have done other than love him and that's the worst hurt of all.
I hope this touches someone's heart that can give me some hope or advice.
I have a 30 year old son, who was always a difficult child. He had tourettes, and ADD, both, he says I fabricated to get SSI, when I was a single mom. I loved him the most, we were close. At age 14, he got a little brother, as I had remarried. He seemed thrilled. His life had gotten easier, he had friends, even a girlfriend. He graduated with a 4.0 from college and in 8 years time was a young millionaire with his own company. He seemed generous, sent me to see him twice in Italy, where he lives, sent my husband and son to Malta to visit, and helped us financially a few times. He soon married a wonderful Italian woman 8 years his senior.
After Christmas this year he started becoming beligerant and rude over the phone. He wanted all financial documents that I had, as I did his taxes for years.
He DEMANDED them NOW, or he would pursue a law suit against me. SMH, I sent everything.
Within a week latter, he called my husband, and told him he wanted no more contact with all of us, and this has been his stand every time I have tried to ask him why? I know he smokes hash, and probably does other drugs. He has also told my daughter in law vicious lies of how terrible his childhood was. She could intervene but doesn't.
I am hurt beyond words, and have health issues as well. I can think of nothing that I have done other than love him and that's the worst hurt of all.
I hope this touches someone's heart that can give me some hope or advice.