I am seventeen years old. I had sex with my boyfriend on May 25th, which was the last day of my period. We used a condom and he only put it in a few times and pulled out so it didn't last long at all. I was so paranoid thinking that I was pregnant. I took four pregnancy tests a few days before my next period was supposed to start. They were all negative. I started my period on time and I was relieved. It was quite short though. On the last day of my period I was scheduled to get plastic surgery on my breasts. I was still worried I was pregnant and that I wouldn't be able to get the surgery because they took my blood and urine but Im not sure if they took a pregnancy test though. So I thought if I am able to have the surgery, it must mean Im not pregnant. I had the surgery and it took a few weeks to recover. I then started to take adderall XR for my ADHD and it didn't make me feel that well and was never hungry. I started losing a couple pounds and when I did eat, it was healthy. I started to work out more. I was still scared and paranoid that I was pregnant at this time. When the time of my period came around it lasted for the normal five days but was light and dark brown blood. I was worried that I was spotting but I didn't think spotting lasted for five days. So about a week after that, I was still taking adderall everyday and not eating a lot at all. I had some nights without sleep and would wake up the next morning feeling dizzy and kind of sick with a headache. I had clear stringy discharge for a few days and then kind of a light brown with an unpleasant odor. My stomach has been feeling very odd. I always feel bloated and my stomach sometimes makes noises. Also, most of the time I can feel and see a pulsating motion in my stomach. It worries me. I don't know if these are all side effects of adderall and from not eating much. Im worried because some of these symptoms relate to pregnancy. I have taken a few pregnancy tests recently and they are all still negative. My boyfriend fingered me the other day and these booger like things that were dark red came out, and when I urinated this stringy stuff came out. This might just all be in my head but I am too young to have a baby! I only have had sex once and it was for five seconds! Help me and sorry this was so long!

They did indeed do a pregnancy test. Surgery requires a pregnancy test for woman of child bearing years. You would not have had the surgery had you been pregnant.

Considering how worried and paranoid you are about becoming pregnant and that you feel too young to have a baby, why are you having sex?

Considering how worried and paranoid you are about becoming pregnant and that you feel too young to have a baby, why are you having sex?

ThANK YOU!!

You learn from your mistakes. And It took me one quick and protected time to learn mine. I learned that I can wait and that I do not need to please a guy this way and just to be myself. Most girls my age are having unprotected sex everyday...

girls my age are having unprotected sex everyday...

And I deliver their babies 9 months later.

Ive learned from my mistake, just like everybody else has at some point in their life.

Ive learned from my mistake, just like everybody else has at some point in their life.

That's very good to hear. Not all girls realize this.

Ive learned from my mistake, just like everybody else has at some point in their life.

Excellent! Glad you learned a lesson. Sometimes life is hard, but we all learn from our mistakes.