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sexymelo79
Aug 1, 2012, 10:23 AM
Why does a man need space? Why would my boyfriend ask for a break if everything was okay?

C0bra_M3nace
Aug 1, 2012, 10:32 AM
A bit vague, the question title says something, yet the actual body of the question leads you in another direction.

What is the actual situation?

sexymelo79
Aug 1, 2012, 10:41 AM
Okay well I have 2 men in my life who both are in love with me as I with them. They know about each other and are perfectly fine with the situation. I live with my husband and man 2 lives with his daughter and his ex for finance reasons. Man #2 says he needs space. Everything was fine until yesterday, because he is stressed about a lot of things and I did something I thought was innocent but turned out to upset him more. He said he need time to think about things. I am worried because this has made all of us happy and I don't know what to do. He is an older man and he has been honest with us and we know ths cause we have met the ex and she confirms they are not together. She doesn't know about us, but that's as far as the hiding stuff goes. What do I do? Give him space? He has pleaded his undying love for me more then once.

C0bra_M3nace
Aug 1, 2012, 10:51 AM
There are a number of reasons people ask for "space" in a relationship. To my knowledge, the number 1 reason, is an "easy way out". Basically meaning, that's their nice way to let you go.

I would give him the space he needs. If he comes back great, but just don't be surprised if he leaves it at that.

sexymelo79
Aug 1, 2012, 10:53 AM
Wow thanks

hmcegl
Nov 7, 2013, 11:11 AM
This is not true. My account had been hacked back then I no longer have that account due to those reasons. I am in love with one man and one man only. This was written by someone who thought that because my best friend is a guy, that it automatically made him my boyfriend. I love my man always will. Please always change your passwords people and never let crazy es in your life. My best friend at the time needed space too much going on, this person was reported and is no longer in my life. This person was crazy.
I didn't know ths was here until I got a message about it today.