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Devoted732
Mar 5, 2007, 10:14 AM
For any guys out there. What does it mean when a guy says that he gets attached easily? Does attachment to a girl and falling in love go hand in hand. I know what the "definition" or attachment means but what exactly more in depth does it mean with a relaitonship?:confused:

alizeblu
Mar 5, 2007, 10:50 AM
I don't really understand the question.

Devoted732
Mar 5, 2007, 10:52 AM
Ok.. more so.. what does it mean when a guy says that he is feeling attached to a girl or when a guy says that they get attached easily. If someone has commitment issues, do they easily get attached?

alizeblu
Mar 5, 2007, 11:28 AM
Well falling in love and being "attached" to someone are 2 completley diff things. You can be "attached" to anything, doesn't mean you're in love with it though.

Devoted732
Mar 5, 2007, 11:46 AM
Ok... that wasn't the answer I was looking for... what I wanted to know was what it means when a guy says they feel attached? Is that a good thing?

alizeblu
Mar 5, 2007, 12:44 PM
Yes. When they feel attached,this means they feel a strong bond with you. If the guy you are with says he's feels very attached to you take it as a big compliment.

Danny187
Mar 6, 2007, 04:51 PM
Wow OK devoted you need to talk to me about this lol... I am a person that gets easily attached. I told my girlfriend this and she got a little worried because I think she thought I meant I was in love with her... I know I get attached easily.. What that means is that... that he really want to be with you.. and spend a lot of time with you. That he feels very strongly about his feelings. Like I get attached quickly. Like I feel like I want to be with my girlfriend every breaking moment.. but I know I cant. Just I guess its like he really cares about you and is very sure about his feelings.