I've known my boyfriend for two years. We started dating after one year of being friends. When we were friends I thought we had a great relationship. He would tell me anything. When we started dating I really didn't care too much for him. We barely talked or had even held hands. We had communication problems from the beginning. He bought me gifts and told me he loved me etc. I never told him I loved him back because I didn't want to rush our relationship. About five months into the relationship we took a "break". His reason was "we never do anything." I was crushed... (he's my first real boyfriend) after a month or two he begged to be together again, and it took a lot of coaxing but I took him back. I was kind of skeptic because when we got back together nothing changed... so I still didn't understand our "break"... anyway after a month... he wanted to have sex... now I'm one of the biggest prudes, but I agreed. We had been together for a while etc. so we did and I felt as if our relationship got better and I felt closer to him. (in reality we switched roles, he took my role "not caring too much" and I took his role, "head over heels".) but I dropped news on him that we had to make our relationship long distance for one month but it took a lot of wear and tear during that month... not even three weeks of me being gone, he started acting weird and standoff-ish as if I had done something to him. When I finally poked and proded around he told me. He had sex with another girl. Now that's devastating for anyone. I was depressed for a while then and I had a lot of anxiety, but I took him back... because I was in love -.- so after about a week or two he began acting strange again. By this point in time I thought we were back on track (I was wrong). I had changed drastically.we've had a lot of up's and down's while I've been away and it's getting to the point where I don't know what to do. He told me today 7/31/12 that he didn't think we were a match and that "this is boring as hell". (we're still in different states at the moment) I got nervous and then really mad at him because I hate when he makes me feel this way. He brings my insecurities to light every time this happens. I worry myself sick about him everyday and he treats everything nonchalantly. Advice please ?

You can not make someone love you. Count your blessings and move on. You are better off ending this relationship because he will only hurt your feelings. He is a cheater and you deserve better.