Before I mt my husband I dated this guy, I really cared about him though he lived in a different state and would visit me often, I ended it with him. We are still friends and always will be. I have been married for a year, and with him for 5. However I do not feel the same way I did when we got together nor when we got married. I think he is cheating on me also. I don't know what to do? We have a little 1 year old boy that doesn't see him very often nor do I. He constantly calls me names and when I say names I mean, stuff like that he says he does it cause he knows it bothers me but to me that's verbal abuse, I don't want my 1 year old thinking that's how you treat a lady when he is old enough. Lately I have also been thinking about my friend and what it would be like if we hadn't of split up, I loved him with all my heart and I know that we eventually would have been where I am now, he is my best friend I talk to him about everything and he listens, my husband on the other hand when I try to tell him how I feel says that its all non sense. But I thought you were supposed to be able to talk to the person you were with and them listen and be there for u. Not the case. I have that with my best friend but not my husband, I really want to be happy but I am completely miserable everyday. I only smile when I talk to my friend. What should I do?