I am engaged to a wonderful man but the past few months things have been off. The affection is gone between us we have 6 kids so alone time and date nights a very few and far between. He stays at home with the kids and I work 2 jobs one full one part time so we can make ends meet. He does collect disability from being in the Army. But the passion feels like its gone my talking has turned to nagging and that's not what I want. He says he is happy and things are fine but I feel emotionally alone. I don't know what to do, he refuses counseling. We both don't feel appreciated that much I know, just need some outside opinions... thanks

He refuses counseling but what about you? How long has he been disabled, and how disabled is he? How old are you both? What are the age range of the kids? How long have you been together? What has changed in the last few months? Has he always been this way with you?

Could your jobs be wearing you down, and out? So many questions that need answers.