I try everything in my power to make him happy, I cook, clean, take care of his kid and mine. I work, I am paying the bills. We both just got out of a marriage. His was one of 10 years. Mine not long at all. But as hard as I try I feel like I am never good enough.

When we first got together he use to like having sex with me and liked me touching him. A few months later we moved in together. He isn’t cheating, but he is always on his phone 24/7 texting whoever, and on FB. I dropped my FB because I almost ruined our relationship talking to someone. So I don’t talk to anyone. Hard part is when he is upset with me he won’t talk to me, and he is all I talk to.

I told him last night that when we first got together I made a fake FB to check out the girls he always is talking about. Since I told him he won’t talk to me or look at me. It was such a long time ago. I was curious and jealous. But since then I trust him I know he is faithful. But his ex-cheated so much that I have to play her clean up.

Any suggestions on what to do?

Hi I'm jake I might be younger then you but I think I can help but. Men change like a kid chossing between toys reason why is because whe men are stuiped yes including myself but women love us cause us men can provide the protection entertainment security love support.what u could do is pray for the best and fight no matter how bad it gets. Hope I helped and I loved sending this awnser

He needed a house keeper and child care, you also did not say a thing about marriage, so he has no long term commitment or responsibility.

Why should he not change, he has it all

He hasn't changed, you are just noticing things you didn't before. What started as a labor of love has become a chore, and you have to at least split the chores. How old are the kids?

Bad idea to give up what you need, while he gives up nothing. Sounds unfair. Hard to see making adjustments where there is little or no communications. Maybe you moved a bit fast?