So to make a long story short. I dated this girl for a year and a half/2 yrs. My senior year of college/ freshman year of college. We had a great time together and the relationship was all I could ask for back then. We had our issues, being young and dumb and suffocated each other. She broke up with me. It ended up being a bad break.

We stopped speaking for a few months then she started calling and texting a lot again 6 months later. We hooked up a couple times and now it's been almost 3 years since we've actually been anything and 2 since we've hooked up. Now I'm across the country at university and she is talking to me again. She has had a few boyfriends since but always has called me when it goes bad, or when she's upset. I hate this and love it at the same time.

I tell her exactly how I feel with no bull, but she just always seem like she's not giving it enough. Her friends tell me I'm crazy, but I guess I just want to see if it could ever work. We often grab dinner when I'm in and we talk just about every day, I'm going home soon and she wants to spend time together. I'm a bit wary about giving her the opportunity to stomp on my hopes again, and we haven't had a sexual relationship in a while.

Any advice?

I would have disappeared, and stop texting her a long time ago, and gotten a great life without her. You asked.