Hi,
Im having a real problem being able to explain to a 13 year old girl what a orgasm is,why you get them and what they are,I could realey use so help with this one please.

Hopeless and male
Thank you
bigal1812006

I know it's a bit late, but do you still want to know?

I know the OP hasn't been back but WHY would you even need to tell a 13 year old about orgasm? Isn't enough just to know what sex is at that point? GOOD GRIEF!

I agree tell about the facts of life, I too do not feel it is nec. To explain an orgasm

Okay, I agree with discussing sex-however orgasm is (or it should be) enjoyable for both participants-I think this because so far I have answered about thirty questions from women/girls relating to female orgasm (specifically those that think sex will do it for them-but it doesnt).

It would be nice for all of us to drop our sexual hang-ups and learn that sex is not only for procreation-it could actually be fun too.

I would suggest it is highly likely the girl (of the OP) masturbates? Right, wrong?

Some girls that have not been sex-educated can stress over that the great feeling they have (an orgasm) if they touch themselves, think that this orgasm may cause pregnancy-YES some people think that!-I would (and have done so) discuss this with my daughter-in her terms.

She asked the question-we told her it was a nice feeling that people have when they touch themselves or when they have sex-period.

Was this corrupting the child? I think not.

If the question was asked-and I have an answer, I will answer it from a purely educational point of view.

Cheers.