Here's my problem I'm a13 male and never got a girlfriend. But every one else has everyone thinks I'm ugly mean or just plain stuiped and I'm the target.iv been beat up couple of times to where I bairly go outside I live in midland tx and I'm going to move cause where I'm at is a hell hole and a desert.but people think I have it good but I don't my fathers gone dead cause he smoked too much. Me and my dad never bonded cause he was always in his garage.he left on my be day 3 times.I know some people got it worse than me but right now this type of life style isint living its surviving.while others can beat me up and be the bigger man.and I'm so weak that I hate my life but to scared to die.ya I know what the heck but its me.so I would be happy to have someone to help leave a comment

Where are you going to move to?

Where are you going to move to?
Japan it's a dream of mine to move there but where I live isint so pleasant

Why Japan?

Ok, first of all I will agree Midland Texas is the hell hole of the US. And I will agree moving away from there would be a great thing for anyone. ** been there, some of my bad police officer stories come from there. Along with the horror stories of XXX bars and more.

But at 13 you most likely will not have had a girlfriend, most don't happen till 15 to 17. Sorry but most girlfriends at 13 for the guys is more made up and most are not ready for it.

So maybe you are ugly, wish I would show you my photo, bad eye, looks blind in it, balding, fat, no teeth, and I walk with a cane, Guess what, before my current wife, except for the teeth, I looked the same, scars on my arms from knife fights, forehead scarred and more.
I had a date, often two every weekend, had ladies inviting me out for the weekend ( this was about 13 year ago ( and I still a older man then) Had 21 year olds wanting me to take them out. Guess why, my personality, I was fun. Loved to have fun.

In the real adult world, looks are less important, at 13,girls all want the foot ball player or the bad boy gangster. In real life, the nerd is the one that really rules, when the start foot ball player is still working at 7/11 for min wage, the nerd will be the engineer or the doctors or another professional person.

And Japan is a great place to live, I lived and studied Karate there back years ago. So grow up, go to college ( maybe out of Midland or Odessa ** which is worst than Midland) and make things happen.

You control what happens, esp as a adult, at 13, you have to sort of deal with things.


Getting beat up, is it a gang issue ? I know they are bad there.

(He lives in Midland TX.)
I'm sorry you are feeling this way.. sometimes I wish I could take every teenager like you home with me... I wasn't a happy teen either. All I can suggest is that you talk about it more, here. And there has to be someone like you in school, someone you don't notice much because he is beaten up too and hides, and treated meanly. Girls are mean to girls too. I really don't think any one is totally alone like this in school.