Hi,

I am in relationship with my wife for last 1 year. It is arrange marriage. We spend together 1 year including the time of last 6 months as a spouse. During earlier 6 months we were engaged. During the period of our engagement I used to chat online and used to talk on phone over 3 to 4 hours a day with my wife. We have seen more than 25 movies together after our engagement till marriage. I was too much attached to her but she was not like me and this irritates me a lot. I thought after marriage she would like me same as I like her but it has remained same. I am still too much attached to her. Even after marriage when she goes to her home I talk with her phone a lot even she got irrigated. Today when I ask her if you like me the way I like you, she says I can't touch your level. I like you but still it will take sometime for me to reach there. It hurt me a lot and I wanted to reduce my love for her and I felt very bad. These things frustates me a lot and at times I got irritated with her and we had fight by which I release my frustration though I never beat her.