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cas0913
Jul 26, 2012, 06:05 PM
I've been with my fiancée for three yrs. I love him so much but I've been questioning why I love him since he always makes me cry. He complains about the things that I do and I feel like he talks to me like I'm stupid. That makes me want to talk back and he says I never accept feedback and that I need to just listen and be quite sometimes. I've tried my best to cook and clean BC he has complained about that too. But the only reason I stopped cleaning was BC he is so messy I and he doesn't do anything to clean. He always tells me that love isn't enough sometimes for a relationship to work and that if I think I can do better then to leave. I told him no and that I chose him and that's why we have a daughter and he said no we have a daughter because we just had her. That made me cry because I didn't because I loved him and he wanted a baby. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't love me anymore by the things he says.I feel like he wants to push me out by over reacting and being this way towards me.
P.s when ever we argued bdfore we would always have make up sex and now he doesn't even want me in the same room as him. What do I do?

LJDK
Jul 27, 2012, 12:18 AM
Suggest that you go to counseling together. Make the appointment and tell him to be there. This is serious and although the internet can give you advise, the best would be to see someone in person.