MrTurner
Jul 24, 2012, 11:35 AM
Long story short. My wife of 3 years has cheated on me with 3 different men over the course of our relationship. Now that I have gotten more wise and decided to leave she does not let me see our daughter. Always using the excuse of "i need to know who your with, where your at, etc". While that is understandable to an extent it usually is that she can find out if I'm going to be with anyone not because she truly cares about the well being of our daughter. I have always been faithful, never put our daughter in danger, and have tried to be a very good father.
I should also note that she wanted to work after the pregnancy so that she "wasnt sitting at home alone without friends being depressed that she no longer had any life". So I was the stay at home parent for almost 8 months and STILL provided the main income through a now depleted trust fund.
My main concern is... I do not have a lot of money now, I just want to see my daughter, and I want her mother to allow BOTH of us to do our best at providing our daughter with the life she needs. What is the best ways to go about doing this? Is there something I can cheaply file? What should I be prepared to show the courts? And should I not assume that a custody agreement will work and go ahead with trying to obtain full custody?
I should also note that she wanted to work after the pregnancy so that she "wasnt sitting at home alone without friends being depressed that she no longer had any life". So I was the stay at home parent for almost 8 months and STILL provided the main income through a now depleted trust fund.
My main concern is... I do not have a lot of money now, I just want to see my daughter, and I want her mother to allow BOTH of us to do our best at providing our daughter with the life she needs. What is the best ways to go about doing this? Is there something I can cheaply file? What should I be prepared to show the courts? And should I not assume that a custody agreement will work and go ahead with trying to obtain full custody?