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Zeldalover
Jul 23, 2012, 11:04 AM
So my two really good friends are dating my best guy friend and my great girl friend, PLUS! My two other REALLY good friends are dating! And they both happened at the same time!
GAAHHH! Anyway lets call my best guy friend L and his girl (my friend) C.
And the other J and M. So frist J and M started dating and they didn't tell me about it and I heard they were having a date and I freaked out, I mean I think its cute and all but they both keep on telling me stuff about each other and it makes me sad?! BUT THEN, L and C like either other a little bit but then I told them both they both liked either other and now they like each other A lot! What do I do!? I started there relationship but I didn't want too cause I used to have a BIG crish on L, but I didn't tell anyone... :/ and when L thinks he likes someone, HE REALLY DOES he doesn't think of anyone wlse and now they don't talk to me and he was my Best guy friend and I was hos an he Never talks to me anymore its always about C. T.T and I'm so jealous of both and idky? I never liked J but I'm still jealous? UHHH!! HELPP!!

Wondergirl
Jul 23, 2012, 11:06 AM
And all these people are what? 12 or so?

Zeldalover
Jul 23, 2012, 11:27 AM
and all these people are what? 12 or so?

15-.-

Homegirl 50
Jul 23, 2012, 11:32 AM
Do you have other friends besides them? Other friends you hang out with?

C0bra_M3nace
Jul 23, 2012, 11:59 AM
Jealousy is a terrible thing, it can ruin a lot of things such as friendships, careers and relationships and it can completely take over ones life.

I'd learn how to deal with your jealousy, because you can't allow it to conquer you.

Zeldalover
Jul 23, 2012, 04:13 PM
Do you have other friends besides them? Other friends you hang out with?

Of course lots

Zeldalover
Jul 23, 2012, 04:15 PM
Jealousy is a terrible thing, it can ruin a lot of things such as friendships, careers and relationships and it can completely take over ones life.

I'd learn how to deal with your jealousy, because you can't allow it to conquer you.

Thanks, I'm happy for them and all I hide my jealousy its not ruining our friendships it just hurt me inside.. Im good at hiding my feeling and making myself look very happy.

Wondergirl
Jul 23, 2012, 04:18 PM
Thanks, im happy for them and all i hide my jealousy its not ruining our friendships it just hurt me inside.. Im good at hiding my feeling and making myself look very happy.
NOT hide it; deal with it and conquer the need for it, its source.

Homegirl 50
Jul 23, 2012, 04:39 PM
Of course lots

Well hang out with them. The more you are away from the couples the better you'll feel.

Zeldalover
Jul 23, 2012, 07:17 PM
Well hang out with them. The more you are away from the couples the better you'll feel.

Okay thank you :)

LOLlover
Jul 24, 2012, 04:19 AM
Tell your best friends guy your situation and try not to make weirdness but express your problem