I have a friend who is only 20, her boyfriend wants to have and does have sex with her that takes the form of her pretending to be having sex with 5 or more men. She is required to role play and make up stories about all the men involved. He proceedes to punish her for what he perceives as her cheating screwing around. He even corrects her if she doesn't get the story correct. He requires her to invent new stories or situations so that there is a change and some variety he doesn't kiss her or pleasure her. This has been going on since the age of 18 and has never pleasured her. It has escalated to physical violence now. I am her pal I want her to leave him but she says she loves him. What can I do to help her?

I have a friend who is only 20, her boyfriend wants to have and does have sex with her that takes the form of her pretending to be having sex with 5 or more men. She is required to role play and make up stories about all the men involved. He proceedes to punish her for what he perceives as her cheating screwing around. He even corrects her if she doesn't get the story correct. He requires her to invent new stories or situations so that there is a change and some variety he doesn't kiss her or pleasure her. This has been going on since the age of 18 and has never pleasured her. It has escalated to physical violence now. I am her pal I want her to leave him but she says she loves him. What can I do to help her?

Her boyfriend has fetish and somewhat even in my mind somewhat strange. But if she wants to put up with it, there is nothing you can do.

I would tell her to demand some equal time or not do his playing

i have a friend who is only 20, her boyfriend wants to have and does have sex with her that takes the form of her pretending to be having sex with 5 or more men. She is required to role play and make up stories about all the men involved. He proceedes to punish her for what he perceives as her cheating screwing around. he even corrects her if she doesnt get the story correct. he requires her to invent new stories or situations so that there is a change and some variety he doesnt kiss her or pleasure her. this has been going on since the age of 18 and has never pleasured her. it has escalated to physical violence now. I am her pal i want her to leave him but she says she loves him. what can i do to help her?


This is her life, her problem, her boyfriend. There is little you can do.

She wouldn't be with him if she didn't get something out of the relationship.

I personally think its sick. But then I'm not into the Dom and sub thing at all. If she puts up with it then she must be too. As an adult, its her choice to make.

I personally think its sick. But then I'm not into the Dom and sub thing at all. If she puts up with it then she must be too. As an adult, its her choice to make.


Boy, I hope I can take back the whip and chains and get a refund.

Boy, I hope I can take back the whip and chains and get a refund.

THAT, would be S&M , something else I'm not into personally.

THAT, would be S&M , something else I'm not into personally.

You're no fun!

THAT, would be S&M , something else I'm not into personally.


Oh, sorry - well, I'll take them back anyway.

I've got a very short list of (not for me) Stuff, but they are on it.