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springbok
Jul 21, 2012, 01:26 PM
I have a friend who is only 20, her boyfriend wants to have and does have sex with her that takes the form of her pretending to be having sex with 5 or more men. She is required to role play and make up stories about all the men involved. He proceedes to punish her for what he perceives as her cheating screwing around. He even corrects her if she doesn't get the story correct. He requires her to invent new stories or situations so that there is a change and some variety he doesn't kiss her or pleasure her. This has been going on since the age of 18 and has never pleasured her. It has escalated to physical violence now. I am her pal I want her to leave him but she says she loves him. What can I do to help her?

springbok
Jul 21, 2012, 01:28 PM
I have a friend who is only 20, her boyfriend wants to have and does have sex with her that takes the form of her pretending to be having sex with 5 or more men. She is required to role play and make up stories about all the men involved. He proceedes to punish her for what he perceives as her cheating screwing around. He even corrects her if she doesn't get the story correct. He requires her to invent new stories or situations so that there is a change and some variety he doesn't kiss her or pleasure her. This has been going on since the age of 18 and has never pleasured her. It has escalated to physical violence now. I am her pal I want her to leave him but she says she loves him. What can I do to help her?

Fr_Chuck
Jul 21, 2012, 02:05 PM
Her boyfriend has fetish and somewhat even in my mind somewhat strange. But if she wants to put up with it, there is nothing you can do.

I would tell her to demand some equal time or not do his playing

JudyKayTee
Jul 22, 2012, 08:36 AM
i have a friend who is only 20, her boyfriend wants to have and does have sex with her that takes the form of her pretending to be having sex with 5 or more men. She is required to role play and make up stories about all the men involved. He proceedes to punish her for what he perceives as her cheating screwing around. he even corrects her if she doesnt get the story correct. he requires her to invent new stories or situations so that there is a change and some variety he doesnt kiss her or pleasure her. this has been going on since the age of 18 and has never pleasured her. it has escalated to physical violence now. I am her pal i want her to leave him but she says she loves him. what can i do to help her?


This is her life, her problem, her boyfriend. There is little you can do.

She wouldn't be with him if she didn't get something out of the relationship.

smoothy
Jul 23, 2012, 06:55 AM
I personally think its sick. But then I'm not into the Dom and sub thing at all. If she puts up with it then she must be too. As an adult, its her choice to make.

JudyKayTee
Jul 23, 2012, 07:02 AM
I personally think its sick. But then I'm not into the Dom and sub thing at all. If she puts up with it then she must be too. As an adult, its her choice to make.


Boy, I hope I can take back the whip and chains and get a refund.

smoothy
Jul 23, 2012, 07:05 AM
Boy, I hope I can take back the whip and chains and get a refund.

THAT, would be S&M , something else I'm not into personally.

Enigma1999
Jul 23, 2012, 10:04 PM
THAT, would be S&M , something else I'm not into personally.

You're no fun!

JudyKayTee
Jul 24, 2012, 05:38 AM
THAT, would be S&M , something else I'm not into personally.


Oh, sorry - well, I'll take them back anyway.

smoothy
Jul 24, 2012, 08:21 AM
I've got a very short list of (not for me) Stuff, but they are on it.