staystrong5000
Jul 21, 2012, 06:12 AM
Got dumped last night. Basically I've been seeing this girl off and on for a little over a year. Last summer things were great and I honestly felt like she was way more into me than I was into her. But at the end of the summer I asked her to make it official and she said no and that we should just keep things the way they are for now, since we go to different schools (about an hour apart)
Anyway, she went back to school, and we kind of lost touch the fall semester, it just seemed like we were both too busy to put in the effort. I texted her on valentines day however and things were back on. She came back this summer and it seems like we picked up where we left off. However about a month ago, she started getting distant, and didn't really seem like she wanted to hang out as much as she used to. But she never really gave me a reason why.
Fast forward to yesterday, she invited me to dinner. She came over to my place and I tried to kiss her and she didn't pull away, but she didn't kiss me back. I asked her if she wanted to talk and she said yeah. She told me about how she's been bummed about her Grandfather passing away, and that she's just been really busy with work, which is why she was being so distant.
I knew this wasn't the only reason, so after prying and prying and she started t cry, she finally said she wanted to be just friends. I asked her if there was someone else and she said yeah and that she was just confused blah blah blah. And then just started crying and crying. I kind of gave her a hard time about not just telling me straight up and about not stringing me along, but after a while I kind of gave her a touch I guess that meant that we were good and that I didn't hate her or anything. But she was crying pretty hard. That kind of bummed me out, so I hit the bars with my bros last night, and I parked on the street and her car was right behind mine! IDK why this made me upset, but it kind of ruined my mood. Didn't run into her at the bars though.
My question is, what's next. I've been through break ups before so I'm not going to contact her or stalk her. I just want to know why she was crying so much and why she couldn't just man up and tell me. I'm pretty bummed but I kind of feel bad that I'm not more upset, I didn't love this girl but I saw the potential and I wanted it so work so bad. I saw this coming but before this summer I just thought she was so perfect and that this way the girl I was going to marry. But getting dumped for someone else just kind of feels like you got punched in the stomach. Should I just hop back into sack with another girl to help me get over the it?
Anyway, she went back to school, and we kind of lost touch the fall semester, it just seemed like we were both too busy to put in the effort. I texted her on valentines day however and things were back on. She came back this summer and it seems like we picked up where we left off. However about a month ago, she started getting distant, and didn't really seem like she wanted to hang out as much as she used to. But she never really gave me a reason why.
Fast forward to yesterday, she invited me to dinner. She came over to my place and I tried to kiss her and she didn't pull away, but she didn't kiss me back. I asked her if she wanted to talk and she said yeah. She told me about how she's been bummed about her Grandfather passing away, and that she's just been really busy with work, which is why she was being so distant.
I knew this wasn't the only reason, so after prying and prying and she started t cry, she finally said she wanted to be just friends. I asked her if there was someone else and she said yeah and that she was just confused blah blah blah. And then just started crying and crying. I kind of gave her a hard time about not just telling me straight up and about not stringing me along, but after a while I kind of gave her a touch I guess that meant that we were good and that I didn't hate her or anything. But she was crying pretty hard. That kind of bummed me out, so I hit the bars with my bros last night, and I parked on the street and her car was right behind mine! IDK why this made me upset, but it kind of ruined my mood. Didn't run into her at the bars though.
My question is, what's next. I've been through break ups before so I'm not going to contact her or stalk her. I just want to know why she was crying so much and why she couldn't just man up and tell me. I'm pretty bummed but I kind of feel bad that I'm not more upset, I didn't love this girl but I saw the potential and I wanted it so work so bad. I saw this coming but before this summer I just thought she was so perfect and that this way the girl I was going to marry. But getting dumped for someone else just kind of feels like you got punched in the stomach. Should I just hop back into sack with another girl to help me get over the it?