Adam7469
Jul 20, 2012, 07:09 PM
Hey all, first off, this is a teen relationship. My names Adam, I'm 15 and I've been in around 10 relationships. I moved from the city of Chicago to the rural area of Crystal Lake IL. It was a brand new school half way through the year and I was the center of almost every girls attention. But out of all of them, I had to have one.
We instantly hit it off. I fell in love and so did she. But past relationships have lead to me not being able to trust anyone, so it was hard to manage the relationship, there were so many fights and breakups, but as time progressed, by the 4th month, we were as happy as could be. We still had some minor fights but, don't we all?
Then disaster struck. She went to visit family a state away and I was an idiot and got too caught up in work to call her every day. I didn't make enough time to call her. By the time she got back our relationship was weak. She was upset from an event that happened while visiting family and I was non caring, I don't know why. Then the next day she called me before bed and we got into a small fight over a friend of hers I really didn't like. Then she brokeup with me. I thought it was just an angry breakup but the next day she made it clear we weren't getting back together, that was Saturday. Everyday until Tuesday I begged her to come back every day. I know she still has feelings, she tells me it's hard but lately, I've completely changed my mood to make it seem like I was fine.
I went to get my clothes with one of her old friends, (she wouldn't think we were dating, she's a little older), and I acted very mature and care free, I laughed, asked how she was doing and told her to take care. I didn't make an ounce of pain visible. I've made it through a week now. How can I get her back? The reason she brokeup with me is because of how jealous I can get and how I didn't make enough time for her. Im sure I can change this if I get another chance, but I don't know how to get her back. How long should I try No Contact? I'm really in love with her. I took her virginity and she took mine, we were eachothers first loves, she told me she loved me a few days before the breakup, Im pretty sure its been hard on her..
How do I get her to get back together with me? Begging doesn't work lol.
We instantly hit it off. I fell in love and so did she. But past relationships have lead to me not being able to trust anyone, so it was hard to manage the relationship, there were so many fights and breakups, but as time progressed, by the 4th month, we were as happy as could be. We still had some minor fights but, don't we all?
Then disaster struck. She went to visit family a state away and I was an idiot and got too caught up in work to call her every day. I didn't make enough time to call her. By the time she got back our relationship was weak. She was upset from an event that happened while visiting family and I was non caring, I don't know why. Then the next day she called me before bed and we got into a small fight over a friend of hers I really didn't like. Then she brokeup with me. I thought it was just an angry breakup but the next day she made it clear we weren't getting back together, that was Saturday. Everyday until Tuesday I begged her to come back every day. I know she still has feelings, she tells me it's hard but lately, I've completely changed my mood to make it seem like I was fine.
I went to get my clothes with one of her old friends, (she wouldn't think we were dating, she's a little older), and I acted very mature and care free, I laughed, asked how she was doing and told her to take care. I didn't make an ounce of pain visible. I've made it through a week now. How can I get her back? The reason she brokeup with me is because of how jealous I can get and how I didn't make enough time for her. Im sure I can change this if I get another chance, but I don't know how to get her back. How long should I try No Contact? I'm really in love with her. I took her virginity and she took mine, we were eachothers first loves, she told me she loved me a few days before the breakup, Im pretty sure its been hard on her..
How do I get her to get back together with me? Begging doesn't work lol.