I was dating with this guy for 1 year. We had a good relationship but one day he stop calling me. I don't know why but after 2 months he called me and he tell me that he was sorry. And he tell me that he didn't call me because he was embarrass about what happen on our last date. He got sick when we were having sex.

He tell me that while this 2 mouths that he didn't call he didn't have been with other girl and he ask me if I want to go on a date? I tell him no because I was insecure and I was mad he didn't call me.

He tells me that he didn't call me because he thought that I was mad at him because I didn't call him. The reason that I didn't call him was my brother and my mom tell me that he was just playing with me. I believed them and that's why I don't call him.

I don't know what to do. I still have feelings for him and do want to go on that date but at the same time I don't. I told mom about it and she said that if I want to go on that date then I should go. But my brother tell me that he just want to play with me and that when he wants he call me.

I don't know what to do. Should I go on that date, or should I listen to my brother.

How old are you both that you have sex but can't talk for two months??

We are 18 years old

I can't really buy his story, but you know him better than I do. Come on 2 months??

After my boyfriend got in to a fight we didn't talk for 2 mouths then he text me one day tell me that he still had feelings for me and that he still love me. He tell me if I wanted to go out on a day so I say "yes" on the day we we're going out it was Sunday in the afternoon because he need it to go to church but then he tex me saying that he couldn't go on the day BC his church had after church festival and something else that I didn't know what was it and tell me that church had gave him a new way to look life.and that he hope I understood and he love me. I tell my mom about it and she tell me that he was just playing with me. Then the next day he text me "Hey. Im not ready to get in a relationship again. Ive found religion and i need to get my life straightened out. Im sorry and i hope you understand. This is something i need to do on my own".so I don't know what he really mean those he still love me or those he just don't want to know anything about me any more??

He still has feelings for you. But to me it seems like he is playing mind games. As hard as this may sound, just do not contact him. Let him come running to you. Its all a game and it works most of the time. Time will heal itself.

Just let him be... He doesn't know what he wants... If he doesn't, then how will you?

Take your heart back by leaving this fellow alone. Who know what goes on in his head. He has other priorities, let him have them.

I had post some questions before my last question was that after my boyfriend and I didn't talk for 2 mouths he call me and ask me if I wanted to go on a date so I said yes after talking he ask me if I wanted to date again and that he love me. But then after few days he call and said that he wasn't ready to have a relationship.

Some of you tell me to not call him back so I didn't but then he text me saying"Hey. I didnt know if you would still want to date me cause im working 7 days a week most weeks and im getting home kinda late. I dont know if you want to or not but if we went out on the weekends it would have to be later in the evening. I love you and i didnt want to hurt you more by not being around as much but i got to do my job. Do you still want to?" Then I said "I understand that you have your job and your working on your house too. but I thought that you was not ready to have a relationship." And he tell me that "Thats because with me working all the time i figured that would put a strain on our relationship."

Then he call me saying that if I wanted to go out on a date on Friday I said I don't know and if I wanted to go I would let him know. He tell me that it was OK. But I don't know should I go or what.

Please help me...

Thank you every one it really help me your advise.