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charliehart
Jul 20, 2012, 11:38 AM
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COOKIE MONSTER
Jul 20, 2012, 05:22 PM
Hun I really don't think he is going to come back
It sounds as if he was giving you excuses,he told you to think about what you want because he's jobless and can not provide for you (but you tell him you don't care if he has a job and you will support him in his time of need) , then doesn't tex you (hoping that you back off and leave him alone) because all of a sudden he's two jobs (then he hopes you realise that your never going to see him because of work) and doesn't have time for you now and that you deserve somebody who can stand by you better than him and he added the i hope you find some better who has more time for you to make sure you got that its over
I'm sorry to be harsh but I think its over
You should move on and start no contact and get on with your life
I know its hard but we are all here for you if you need us

KEEP YOUR CHIN UP GIRL!!

talaniman
Jul 20, 2012, 10:22 PM
Sorry but he has made up his mind it seems and for now you have to accept this as a break up. I see no other healthy way to approach some one that has cut contact with you, and has changed their priorities other than leave them alone, and do the rebuilding without him for yourself.


The day of the interview he was fine with me, then ignored me for 6 days and then text me and said that he was really sorry for ignoring me but he got another job doing bar work (which is his second job) so he is really busy and that he needed to be selfish and focus on himself for a while, and he knew I would say we don't need to split but he hasn't got the time to be with anyone at the minute, but I'm amazing and I WILL get over my issues I just deserve somebody that can put their all into it.

Prettyobvious he was ending things. Sorry again.