Hi, I’ve never posted here before but since everyone seems polite and mature I’m going to give it a try.

Well, I like this girl at my school, she has blonde hair and blue eyes and she is really nice and I just love everything about her. I haven’t really dated much and probably not very good at it just so you know but I'm not a nerd or anything. I do Jiujutsu and I came 2nd at nationals... but anyway, yeah I would do anything to go out with her

Okay so I’ve known her for 1/2 years. I'm 1 year level above but we're still same age. Every Tuesday, when we're on the bus, she always sits opposite me and talks to me a lot. She pretty much laughs at everything I say, and we do swimming together on Fridays. She talks to me at school whenever we see each other. I think she likes me as a good friend. I really want to ask her out but there's 1 teeny little problem.

She has a boyfriend, Ryan, and they've known each other for a year and a 1/4 maybe. Anyway I've never really seen them together but she talks about him sometimes. She once said that I kind of look like him. Well we both have the same hair color and stuff I guess.

So what should I do? Do you think she has any interest in me?

P.S sorry for the long message.

I’ve known her for 1 and a 1/2 years and Ryan has known her for 1 and 1/4 years*

She is friendly and attractive but leave girls with boyfriends alone. Matter of fact, why even waste time when there has to be many attractive young ladies to be dating, if indeed you are old enough to date. How old are you both?

No matter your age its best to practice leaving attached people alone, now, and in the future.

Save yourself a lot of conflict and drama, and feeling foolish being involved in a love triangle. And you can keep your dignity, and self respect by not wasting time, and energy on some one who's not available.

Get your own girl that is! I mean when she tells you she has someone, why would you want her to cheat on him? You would never trust a cheater would you?

Back off!