Iam 18 and it never happened before. I was generally passive towards girls and thought that I'd never fall in love or have a crush. But everything was changed I saw her for the first time in the college. Though I have seen others who were more attractive than her externally, I never felt anything even close rather I only felt repulsive from them. But there was something which I liked about her but find it difficult to define. I thought it was just a crush at the beginning but I started thinking seriously about the relation and our future. I feel that I should wait for some more time so that the things'd get clearer. It has been two weeks since I came to know her and she occupied almost every part of my mind since I saw her. I showed no hint to her regarding all these.

What is my problem actually? What am I supposed to do? Please elaborate and feel free to express our thoughts and your suggestions. I'm waiting.

Iam 18 and it never happened before. I was generally passive towards girls and thought that i'd never fall in love or have a crush. But everything was changed I saw her for the first time in the college. Though I have seen others who were more attractive than her externally, I never felt anything even close rather I only felt repulsive from them. But there was something which I liked about her but find it difficult to define. I thought it was just a crush at the beginning but I started thinking seriously about the relation and our future. I feel that I should wait for some more time so that the things'd get clearer. It has been two weeks since I came to know her and she occupied almost every part of my mind since I saw her. I showed no hint to her regarding all these.

What is my problem actually? What am I supposed to do? Please elaborate and feel free to express our thoughts and your suggestions. I m waiting.


Let's see - you've known her for two weeks. How much time have you spent alone, getting to know each other?

You are thinking seriously about your future with her but think you should wait for some more time - wait for what? Wait to propose marriage, something else?

I have no idea what your problem is but you seem to "fall in love" very easily. If I were the female you'd scare me to death.

No need for the "feel free ... I'm waiting" comment. That's how AMHD works.

Hey friend,
Thanks 4 your suggestion. You really reduced my complication. But the problem is I am yet to speak to her, and I am kind of afraid becoz if I spill out my feelings towards her, it may show the negative effect. From what I have seen, she is kind of shy type. I know very few and trivial things about her. I am liking her from a distance. I have no idea how to move forward or eliminate this entire thing. And I am sure that I am not someone who easily fall in a relationship,because I am not emotion driven kind of guy. Hope you understand.