Applecheddar
Jul 18, 2012, 12:48 AM
I was once the other woman to an engaged man. He is much older than I am. I knew he was to be married but continued our affair anyway.
That affair has come to a close but I see him often and it's clear he still harbors feelings for me.
I am unsure about my feelings for him, but I am absolutely sure about this urge to tell his fiancé that he is a cheater. I respect her and don't wish her heartbreak in the years to come when he is unfaithful again... It would spare them both a messy divorce.
Wedding is approaching. Should I tell her the truth, perhaps anonymously even, or keep it to myself?
That affair has come to a close but I see him often and it's clear he still harbors feelings for me.
I am unsure about my feelings for him, but I am absolutely sure about this urge to tell his fiancé that he is a cheater. I respect her and don't wish her heartbreak in the years to come when he is unfaithful again... It would spare them both a messy divorce.
Wedding is approaching. Should I tell her the truth, perhaps anonymously even, or keep it to myself?