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haley12
Jul 17, 2012, 08:16 PM
I have red hair. I hate it. 75% of people don't like my hair. I wanted to dye my hair blonde because blondes are really pretty and get boyfriends and everyone likes them. Then I wanted to dye it black and get colored highlights like blue/purple/green in my hair. But now I sort of wunna dye it brown. I'm only 12 though and my mom won't let me dye it. She says its "one of a kind". I really wunna dye it though and I don't care if some people like my hair its just I'm really insecure and I'm always wanting to change myself. I always get haircuts. I wanted to grow my hair long at one point but its way too thick and it looks dumb. So now I have short, think, red hair with side bangs and I HATE IT. Please help me. What should I do.?

J_9
Jul 17, 2012, 08:21 PM
I'm sure you are gorgeous!

It's not your hair that gets boys. It's your personality.

Wondergirl
Jul 17, 2012, 08:33 PM
Hmmm, I always had pretty good luck attracting guys, and I have red hair. I was mostly unique with that red hair and stood out as an individual. But it wasn't my hair that did the trick (although it might have gotten me a second look at times). It was really my sparkling personality. :D

Ali11964
Jul 24, 2012, 12:03 AM
Try curling it. Wavy curls around your face not bangs, and I'm a blonde 13 yr old girl and nobody has ever even asked me out, so I'm sure it's not blonde, red is gorgeous :)

haley12
Jul 24, 2012, 11:07 PM
Try curling it. Wavy curls around your face not bangs, and I'm a blonde 13 yr old girl and nobody has ever even asked me out, so I'm sure it's not blonde, red is gorgeous :)

What about bangs that like go on my forehead. Know what I'm talking about? Like I was thinking since you said curls look good then I can have straight bangs on my forehead and wavy hair. How about that??

BethVader
Jul 24, 2012, 11:18 PM
Check out the Suicide Girls Facebook page sometime, you will see that the vast majority of guys are super into redheads. I am a natural blond and I dye my hair red because it's SEXY!
Love yourself & love your naturally beautiful locks!

Ali11964
Jul 25, 2012, 01:29 AM
what about bangs that like go on my forehead.? Know wat im talkin bout? Like i was thinkin since u said curls look good then i can have straight bangs on my forehead and wavy hair. How bout that??? try it :D