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confusedlily
Jul 6, 2012, 12:43 PM
June 23 me and my boyfriend were messing around [no intercourse or anything]. But I did give him oral sex. He told me he sort of came in my mouth but it wasn't a lot at all. 10 mintues later I went home and went upstairs. Notthing I just touched my vagina . Only for like 2 seconds. The next day it dawned on me that I probably still had semen on my hand. Today is July 6th. My period was supposed to start yesterday. I did experience some cramping and bloating. And gas. As if my period was going to start. But it didn't. I am very worried and I really need some feeedback and advice.


Please & thank you.

rbdrbd
Jul 6, 2012, 01:16 PM
No,your not pregnant.

confusedlily
Jul 6, 2012, 01:32 PM
no,your not pregnant.
I appreciate the answer. I've been so worried this past week or two about it.

Fr_Chuck
Jul 6, 2012, 01:32 PM
No you would not be pregnant from sperm on your hands, that were on your hands the entire time you went home, went upstairs and "touched" yourself.

Next don't you ever wipe or wash your hands, sperm on your hands you are opening doors, and touching things, yuch.

rbdrbd
Jul 6, 2012, 01:34 PM
i appreciate the answer. ive been so worried this past week or two about it.

Sure..

confusedlily
Jul 6, 2012, 01:35 PM
No you would not be pregnant from sperm on your hands, that were on your hands the entire time you went home, went upstairs and "touched" yourself.

Next don't you ever wipe or wash your hands, sperm on your hands you are opening doors, and touching things, yuch.
Thank you very much, I appreciate the advice.
As I said before I did experience mild cramping, bloating and gas yesterday , making me believe it was implantation bleeding. So I am not sure.
But I am definatley taking what you said into consideration.

J_9
Jul 6, 2012, 04:16 PM
No, you cannot get pregnant this way. No, it was not implantation. You are getting your period.

confusedlily
Jul 6, 2012, 04:27 PM
No, you cannot get pregnant this way. No, it was not implantation. You are getting your period.

I recently got into the shower and a spot of blood came out ?
Is it still my period about to start or is it implantation now?

J_9
Jul 6, 2012, 04:34 PM
Honey, we told you that you cannot get pregnant this way so how could it be implantation?

confusedlily
Jul 6, 2012, 04:39 PM
Honey, we told you that you cannot get pregnant this way so how could it be implantation?

I am sorry. I just never dealt with this situation.
I've read other post where some people say you can get pregnant from semen on your fingers.
And then the whole spotting thing happened.

J_9
Jul 6, 2012, 04:40 PM
Considering your encounter it is impossible for you to be pregnant.

Do you know how pregnancy happens?

Are you ready to be a parent? If you aren't you should reconsider having sexual encounters.

confusedlily
Jul 6, 2012, 04:47 PM
I've ever really been informed on how it happens.
I am not ready to have a child and I don't consider having anymore sexual intercourse for a while.

J_9
Jul 6, 2012, 04:49 PM
But honey, you didn't have intercourse. May I ask how old you are?

confusedlily
Jul 6, 2012, 04:52 PM
I am 16 years old honestly. And I know. I know I am talking in a circle about the situation.
But I am so worried.

J_9
Jul 6, 2012, 04:54 PM
Take this as a lesson learned. I deliver babies to 16 year old girls all the time, but none of them ever got pregnant from semen on their hands.

confusedlily
Jul 6, 2012, 04:57 PM
That makes me feel so much better.
I am definatley taking the things you are telling me and maybe it'll give me a breather.

As for my period, what should I do?

J_9
Jul 6, 2012, 04:59 PM
You do the same thing you do every month with your period. Now, remember it might be lighter or you may even skip it only because you have been so stressed out over this. Stress can cause missed periods.

confusedlily
Jul 6, 2012, 05:01 PM
Thank you so much ! You're the only person whose been making sense of this.
I highly appreciate it.

J_9
Jul 6, 2012, 05:02 PM
You are very welcome. If you have any questions, feel free to ask, but remember that we are only volunteers here, so it might take some time for us to answer. You don't need to post the same question multiple times. We will get to them eventually.

confusedlily
Jul 6, 2012, 09:08 PM
So I thought I was getting my period , but my pad has darkish-light brown discharge with a few red spots...
Now I am stressed all over againn
Is this implantation bleeding.

Some one please tell me.

Thank you.

J_9
Jul 6, 2012, 09:14 PM
I've answered you already. Thread closed.

confusedlily
Jul 6, 2012, 09:25 PM
I am sorry its just worst case scenario !
Why am I getting light brown -and light red discharge then?

And its not a lot, you could say its scanty..

ana3222
Jul 6, 2012, 09:26 PM
Wat

confusedlily
Jul 6, 2012, 09:27 PM
Wat

Sorry. It's a response to something else.
If you read my other post, you would understand better.

ana3222
Jul 6, 2012, 09:35 PM
Oh OK my bad iwasnt being smart or anything confused sorry

J_9
Jul 6, 2012, 09:43 PM
I have already told you that you cannot get pregnant from semen on your hand.

You are experiencing an off period due to your stress. Please stop asking the same question over and over. You won't get a different answer.

Fr_Chuck
Jul 6, 2012, 09:48 PM
This is not pregnancy, spotting happens, missed periods happen, few women are always regular. This is what you as you grow up have to get used to.

If what you said before is all that happened, then you can not be pregnant, does not work that way.

confusedlily
Jul 12, 2012, 04:48 PM
My period started five days ago.
The first 2 days were normal. I had red blood, it was heavy like as well.
Now all I get is light and dark brown blood and it's a very light flow.

Why is this

Fr_Chuck
Jul 12, 2012, 04:56 PM
Are you sexually active ?

confusedlily
Jul 12, 2012, 04:59 PM
No I'm not. But there was a certain altercation I was in about 2 or 3 weeks ago.
Well... I gave my boyfriend a hand job and he sort of "came"in my mouth.
I wasn't sure if I had semen on my hand or not.
When I got back him , I touched my vagina not thinking to wash my hands.
People say its almost impossible to get pregnant this way but I'm not sure.
Like I said my period was normal and then it just changed.

confusedlily
Jul 14, 2012, 11:24 AM
About 3 weeks ago, I was fooling around with my boyfriend. We did not have sex however I did give him oral sex . He claims that he sort of "came" in my mouth but it wasn't a lot at all . I'm not sure if any of it got on my hands, but when I got home , I went to the restroom and started to kindove touch my vagina.
The next morning I realized that I couldve had semen on my hand...
My period came July 7th
It was fairly normal the first 2 days , but the last 3 days all I got was dark brown blood and then sort of light brown.
Today is July 14th and I've been having mild back pain and leg pain.

Could I be pregnant ?

confusedlily
Jul 15, 2012, 11:51 AM
June 23 me and my boyfriend were messing around [no intercourse or anything]. But I did give him oral sex. He told me he sort of came in my mouth but it wasn't a lot at all. 10 mintues later I went home and went upstairs. Notthing I just touched my vagina . Only for like 2 seconds. The next day it dawned on me that I probably still had semen on my hand. My period started July 7th. The first 2 days it was normal.. then I started getting more-so brown blood with a little red... then just light and brown dark blood . My period ended about 2 days ago.
Now I'm having leg, stomach and back pain/...

Could I be pregnant or is this something else?

ScottGem
Jul 15, 2012, 11:54 AM
The likelihood of pregnancy is extremely small. If you are having pains, see your doctor.

confusedlily
Jul 17, 2012, 11:59 AM
I've been told several times that its highley unlikely to get pregnant from semen on your hands.
But ever since my period ended all I've been getting is cramps here and there
And then some back pain.
I do remember the 3rd - to the last day of my period I got light and dark brown blood instead of red blood.
And now I'm getting this back pain.
The pain is from my neck down .

What could this be ?

JudyKayTee
Jul 17, 2012, 12:22 PM
ive been told several times that its highley unlikely to get pregnant from semen on your hands.
but ever since my period ended all ive been getting is cramps here and there
and then some back pain.
i do remember the 3rd - to the last day of my period i got light and dark brown blood instead of red blood.
and now im getting this back pain.
the pain is from my neck down .

what could this be ?


After the semen got on someone's hands where were the hands?

Yes, it's highly unlikely but it does happen.

Pain from the neck down is not a symptom of pregnancy. You need to see a Physician.

Please stop opening new threads about the same question - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-teen-health/help-683044.html You were sort of fooling around; he sort of came in your mouth; he sort of got semen on his hands; he sort of touched you.

You are playing very adult games and you very likely could get pregnant.

confusedlily
Jul 17, 2012, 12:24 PM
Well.. I gave him oral sex .he told me he sort of ejaculated in my mouth but it wasn't a lot at all, I assumed I had some on my hands. Again I'm not sure if I got any on my hands
When I got home , my vagina was kindove hurting so I touched it twice, not even for 10 seconds.

confusedlily
Jul 17, 2012, 12:26 PM
And it's a little hard for me to breathe now. My chest feels heavy

JudyKayTee
Jul 17, 2012, 12:33 PM
and its a little hard for me to breathe now. my chest feels heavy


Then make an appointment with a Physician.

Everything that can be said has been said.

PLEASE stop opening new threads. I know you're upset and scared. There is nothing else anyone can tell you. And, again, keep engaging in risky behavior and minimizing that behavior ("a little" ejaculate?) and you ARE going to be pregnant and then I can read your multiple posts on that Board.

I don't mean to be cruel or heartless but there is nothing else anybody here can tell you - make an appointment with a Physician and then either use at least two means of birth control OR stop your risky behavior.

I'm not even sure you know how pregnancy happens.

Anyway - here's the history: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-teen-health/cramps-minimal-back-pain-683885.html#post3199143; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-teen-health/help-683044.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-teen-health/period-back-pain-682668.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-teen-health/period-682056.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-teen-health/color-blood-what-means-681081.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-teen-health/response-spotting-679743.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-teen-health/help-679736.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-teen-health/could-pregnant-handjob-incident-679564.html;

JudyKayTee
Jul 17, 2012, 12:41 PM
The likelihood of pregnancy is extremely small. If you are having pains, see your doctor.


Please - numerous threads, same subject, various versions - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-t...l#post3199143; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-t...p-683044.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-t...n-682668.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-t...d-682056.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-t...s-681081.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-t...g-679743.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-t...p-679736.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-t...t-679564.html;

ScottGem
Jul 17, 2012, 12:47 PM
I have merged all your threads. Please do not keep asking new questions over the same issues. If you have a follow-up question or information then use the Reply or Answer options to add to this thread. Any further new threads will be removed.