My husband had been having a relationship with another woman. When I found out I asked him to leave the home, he did and moved in with this woman. Within the four months they have been together they have been evicted, moved from hotels, stayed in other peoples homes, they get refused rentals, she is an alcoholic, belligerent, fights and hits him and her children, and she has had more than one Internet affair and starts fights in public.

He has shared all this with our 22 year old daughter. After 23 years of marriage with a normal life what could he be staying in a relationship for? Are there delusions associated with affairs? He also says sees her as his wife although we are not yet divorced and has tried to get our daughter to accept her after telling her all the terrible things this woman has done.

Can't explain the chemistry, but the guy has lost his mind. How else can you explain the insanity he goes through! Get your divorce, and value your freedom to do better.

Something tells me his problems will get worse. Don't be around for his middle aged crap!