I left my ex boyfriend 3months ago. I still have shreds of feelings for him but he says we can never be back together. I am crushing on his friend, and out of the blues, he also professes his love for me and said if I'm scared we could date secretly. What do I do?

i left my ex boyfriend 3months ago, i still have shreds of feelings for him but he says we can never be back together. I am crushing on his friend and out of the blues, he also professes his love for me and said if am scared we could date secretly. What do i do?

DO NOT date him, not even in secret! It will only destroy the friend/ex-boyfriend friendship, and It will completely ruin your reputation. You also need to completely heal and move on from your ex-boyfriend before you date someone else, this so your next relationship will be healthy.

Good Luck :)

Thank you very much, am just scared that someone better won't come along

Have fun dating others just for fun and friendship, and forget a relationship and title until you are better prepared to cut the ex loose in your heart.

None of that secret dating stuff. Who needs that complication? Crushes come and go, let this one go for now. There is no hurry for a boyfriend is there?