I when I masterbate I feel like I need to urinate, I can't orgasm with out
Peeing myself. I pee then orgasm. Like the warmth does it or something. I can't orgasm w.o peeing. Ways wrong w me.

Nothing wrong, you are experiencing female ejaculation. It IS NOT urine. Not many women experience this, not even with a partner. I will post a link for you soon, I just can't do it on my IPad, or you can Google 'female ejaculation' and become more informed.

Edit to add link:

En.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation

I have to strongly disagree... having been a man with his face down there at that moment far to many times with far too many different women. A large percentage of women, even young ones will experience bladder leakage at that time if they haven't emptied their bladder a short time before. And if they drink enough liquids their urine won't have a strong smell. You learn to avoid certain positions if that isn't your thing to avoid any embarasing reactions, as it not voluntary on her part most of the time.

Now I know why they call you Smoothy...

I have to strongly disagree.....having been a man with his face down there at that moment far to many times with far too many different women. A large percentage of women, even young ones will experience bladder leakage at that time if they haven't emptied their bladder a short time before. And if they drink enough liquids their urine won't have a strong smell. You learn to avoid certain positions if that isn't your thing to avoid any embarasing reactions, as it not voluntary on her part most of the time.

You are so far off base with this smoothy. Then you don't agree with female ejaculation, or squirting. It doesn't smell like urine my dear and it has a lot to do with the G spot, if you know what that means.

You have been on the receiving end of someone not experiencing 'squirting'.

Even at my age, never experienced bladder leakage at that time, just a lot of pleasure with SQUIRTING.

Now I know why they call you Smoothy....

YES isn't he something really

I have to strongly disagree.....having been a man with his face down there at that moment far to many times with far too many different women. A large percentage of women, even young ones will experience bladder leakage at that time if they haven't emptied their bladder a short time before. And if they drink enough liquids their urine won't have a strong smell. You learn to avoid certain positions if that isn't your thing to avoid any embarasing reactions, as it not voluntary on her part most of the time.


Gee, I'm sorry I asked -

Well, another night I won't be able to sleep -

How many times do I have to warn ALL of you?

MEDICAL JOURNALS with EVIDENCE either way for squirting or leaking.

If you can't quote them, I don't want to hear your argument AGAIN about it.

To the OP--try emptying your bladder before masturbation and see if you are still able to reach orgasm.

Medical journals aren't always necessary.. . Past experiences are evidence for the people who lived them. Plus this is like a forum, not a research paper. I have read plenty of actual material on a wide variety of stuff but its not like I take notes to quote it later. You can know it without remembering where it came from too.
There are quite a few woman who leak at least a small portion of urine at orgasm. Men can't urinate/ ejaculate at the same time cause of how the male system is. It is more common than you think for women though. Usually it kind of just blends in with the other fluids (this had not personally happened to me but I have read/ seen stuff about it). Not sure how much is occurring but don't get too worked up about it. If it is a major concern for you you can see a doctor (gyno, etc).
Then are you actually a male or female? Your name is Justin Smith but the comments/ topic seem to be more female prevalent.
Regardless though, I do agree with Synnen in that you should try emptying your bladder before and try to reach orgasm. Really it is always good practice to empty your bladder before sexual activities to help avoid any mishaps such as this. It can also help to end some interruptions, any discomfort that may occur from a full bladder, apprehension to orgasm etc.

How many times do I have to warn ALL of you?

MEDICAL JOURNALS with EVIDENCE either way for squirting or leaking.

If you can't quote them, I don't want to hear your argument AGAIN about it.

To the OP--try emptying your bladder before masturbation and see if you are still able to reach orgasm.
Synnen, we weren't arguing and from Personal experience and being in a medical field I felt qualified to answer without quoting or siting a medical journal.

My first experience years ago with female ejaculate, or squirting as some call it was confusing mostly because I KNEW it could note have been urine at that particular time. So with an inquiring mind, set about asking questions of professionals.

Since then my orgasms at nearly 70 years old are occasionally interspersed with squirting when the elusive g spot is reached.

I would never compromise your board with incorrect information so don't get your shirt in a knot, okay.

you are so far off base with this smoothy. then you dont agree with female ejaculation, or squirting. It doesnt smell like urine my dear and it has a lot to do with the G spot, if you know what that means.

You have been on the receiving end of someone not experiencing 'squirting'.

Even at my age, never experienced bladder leakage at that time, just a lot of pleasure with SQUIRTING.

Unless you have your face down there, a lot might not smell like pee, as I said a well hydrated persons pee is not strong smelling. I also know enough about human anatomy to know female ejaculating is a physical impossibility. The women that swear by it use it as an excuse as they are ashamed of having bladder issues that are common with women. No not every woman suffers from it, but a huge percentage do.
No, I am not one to two jump on the politically correct bandwagon either.

Ever notice how the believers in this weren't there before porn started making women pee and improperly called it squirting? Seriously watch one on Bluray... And what I said was obvious. You won't see it on dvd or vhs.

Now I know why they call you Smoothy....

Well, it also has a lot to do with maturity too. She can't help it and why embarrass her. She won't want another date with you if you acted like a kid, that would be exceptionally rude. Besides that's NOTHING like changing a babies diaper.

Here's the thing:

There are about 700 PREVIOUS questions where we have gone back and forth with "personal experience" as to whether it is urine or ejaculation.

It NEVER ends with a definitive answer because there IS no definitive answer.

NO ONE has proved it either way.

So... YES, as the MODERATOR on these boards, I WILL insist on medical journals on this topic, because I get sick of moderating the arguments. And yes, you ARE arguing.

Would you like, instead, for me to delete anything that is an argument with each other and ONLY leave posts addressed to the OP on how to deal with their particular situation? In essence, you can each state your opinion ONCE in a thread, and everything AFTER that with no medical journal quotation gets deleted? Is that more fair?

I also know enough about human anatomy to know female ejaculating is a physical impossibility. The women that swear by it .

You would have to turn the screw tighter wouldn't you. They are fighting words but ABSOLUTELY will not respond to your comment because I respect Synnen's comments about this. And you should have as well.

Would you like, instead, for me to delete anything that is an argument with each other and ONLY leave posts addressed to the OP on how to deal with their particular situation? In essence, you can each state your opinion ONCE in a thread, and everything AFTER that with no medical journal quotation gets deleted? Is that more fair?

Yes, absolutely, thank you !

Zooster brought up a point that I, too, have a question about: Is the op male or female?

While the question is similar to those asking asking about female ejaculation, the user name appears to be male.

Though it isn't as common, males can suffer from incontinence during sex. The 'flap' that is supposed to close during erection and ejaculation can fail for a couple of reasons. I do not know (haven't found an article yet that talking about it) how common it is for a male to urinate at will while erect (the fetish associated with urination isn't one I have paid too much attention to.)

Which leads into my thoughts on your question. It sounds less to me like an ejaculation and more like a trained behavior. The urinating appears to happen before the climax and in deed seems to cause it.

I would guess that you accidentally wet yourself while masturbating once and the intense feeling of relief and warmth put you over the edge. Since then, you have been using that sensation as a short-cut to climaxing. It makes it easier for you.

Do you find yourself getting aroused when your bladder is overly full or when emptying it?

If it is a learned behavior, you can change it if you want to though it will take a lot of work, patience and time. Habits that have a pleasurable outcome are harder to change than those with negative feedback.