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4monos
Jul 16, 2012, 04:53 AM
I met a guy online. We made a very good connection. After a week and a half of talking, he suggested we grab a drink that night to finish the conversation we were having. I turned him down, mainly because it was too spontaneous and I felt he should have planned and asked me out ahead of time. He asked the next day too and I shot him down again. Feeling guilty for doing this to a man that I really felt a connection for I suggested a lunch date the next date. The date went well, he was a bit more timid than I expect and I was more comfortable than I ever expected myself to feel around a man. We continued talking all week and honestly we both have a good feel for each other. There is definitely some sexual tension building up. We had a casual date on Saturday and the conversation was very interesting and had great flow, we ended up having a make-out session. I am very interested in him and he appears to be into me too. The next day he seemed to be playing it cool because we usually text throughout the day. We briefly talked in the morning and then in the evening he asked if I would like to go on another adventure again, and asked me if weekends worked best for me. So my question is what should I expect next, if this guy really is into me? He is very nice, but he's also very attracted to me, I'm afraid the next date may be all about trying to get me into bed, which I'm not opposed to, but I would rather see if this can turn into something more serious than dating. Lol

Homegirl 50
Jul 16, 2012, 06:29 AM
Then do the weekend thing yet. Get to know each other better first. You haven't known each other that long