I want to get over and move on but I can't see him with another girl ican't do anything I love him so much :///

I don't know how long you haven't been with your ex, although you still love him it doesn't mean you need to be with him. For whatever reason he is your ex but it doesn't mean you can't be friends. Take time for yourself and slowly start moving back out there to find happiness for you and let him find it for himself as well. Good Luck

First thank you 4 your advice :) we have been for a year we are still friends but idon't want to be his frIend I want him back :(((

I understand but like I said earlier your exes for a reason, just be thankful that you two didn't get to the point where you couldn't be friends. And who knows maybe later down the line if it's meant to be, then you two will be together. But you still need to move on and grow so that the same mistakes will not be made again. Good Luck

We broke up a 2 month ago .
He left me... and I cryied like crazy,. he basically broke my heart and I told him that...
Now he keeps on calling me "just to hear my voice" as he says.
He wants to be friends because he said he doent want to lose my complitelly
Now he just calls to find out "how I am

No word on getting back together... should I pick up his calls?
I love him but if he stop loving me why he still calling me I want to forget him because to be friend to someone who was your lover that's killing me dawn deep

Men play as many games as woman do. He's calling you because he knows you will pick up. Once you stop picking, this is where you'll see the real intentions. Silence is a woman's weapon. Use it and if it's meant to be it will work out. Good luck :)

Thank you for your advice but I can't get him out of my life I love him I don't know what to do :((( :/

Thank you for your advice but i can't get him out of my life i love him i don't know what to do :((( :/

You don't have to get him out of your life, but you will have to show him you are not a doormat, or else you will be treated like one. And you'll rely on a one sided relationship that will never benefit you.
Better to find out what it will be, then to be someone's sometimes.

You help me so much can you add me to talk about this I need someone by my side because I'm hopeless girl :( >email address removed per site rules<

I hate my life am a hopeless girls my boyfriend broke up with me I want to die any advice how to die?

There are painless ways to die. The ones I know about take either a great deal of money (countries where assisted suicide is legal) or a certain amount of technical knowledge.

Few people are going to give them to a grief stricken lovesick girl.

How long ago did he break up with you?

2 monthes

Instead of concentrating on ending things, why don't we talk about how to make things better for you.

Breaking up is hard. We've all been there. I know that a few times in my teen life I felt like I'd never be happy again after a break up. One thing I learned, breakups happen for a reason, and you will meet someone better, someone that you love even more than the person you were with before. Every single breakup and heartbreak I went through led me to the man I'm married to. I wouldn't change that for anything.

How old are you? Age can play a huge part in depression. Young teens are much more prone to depression and feelings like this.

Have you told your parents how you feel?

Bottom line, and I know you've probably already heard this, but, it's true. It does get better. Suicide is final. That's it. It's over. Going through the feelings you're going through now, dealing with them, well, those feelings really won't last forever, and you have so many things in life to still look forward to. You really don't want to miss them, trust me.

So, what are your hobbies? What do you like to do? What makes you smile? Let's start there and work our way up. :)

So do you have friends, school, a job, things to do during the day to keep your mind busy?

Alty thank you 4 your advice! Im 17 years old but I'm sick of this life all I think about to end my life :'(

Wonder girl I have many friend but at this time I choice to be lonely :(

Alty thank you 4 your advice !! Im 17 years old but im sick of this life all i think about to end my life :'(

Wonder girl i have many friend but at this time i choice to be lonley :(

I do understand, but really, dying isn't the answer.

You need to get out of this slump you're in.

Will you do me a favor? Just one.

Today will you call one of your friends, go out and do something special with that friend. It can be anything. Going to the mall and window shopping, going out for ice caps, going to a movie, or just going for a walk. But go out!

Then, when you get home, write how going out made you feel today.

Don't go out thinking "it's not going to help". Give it your best. Go out with a positive attitude and try to have fun. Okay?

One thing about depression, it can make us isolate ourselves. We don't want to be around people. It's understandable, but it actually makes things worse. Then, the longer we isolate ourselves the more we want to be alone and the more depressed we get because of it.

I know that right now the thought of going out and having fun probably gives you a stomach ache, and you already have excuses for not doing it. Right? Well push through all those excuses and go. I think you may be surprised to find that you'll have more fun that you think you will.

Just give it a try? Please?

I am foing theough the same phase , I am 20 , had a bitter break up 2 months ago. But see , somewhere honestly deep Down the lane I onow he is not the right one. But my heart is still stuck upon him. I think about him 24*7.. Other time I take up sleeping pills and sleep. I know this is not right. Truly, honestly nothing will make you strong till the time YOU yourself accept the fact that NOW ITS OVER & you have to move on anyhow. Go hit a gym, change your looks, join some creative classes, help your mom in daily routine work ir sit with family. The more you put yourself in a room , the more this stupid feeling of dying will kill you. World is beautiful there are so many amazing places yet to see. I wish to Party hard in Vegas! Don't cry & crib for a cheap a** who does not even give a about . Go ahead break free. Because there is many more things to do in life than to even give one more further thought about that loser. And please forst you stop acting like one & crib about Dying and stuff. Your death won't affect the loser you were with it'll effect your parents& your family . Think about them . Live for them. Life is beautiful . Don't waste is on losers! You're surely someone's princess & will be simeone's queen one day. So just chill & give it some time. Trust me time heals all the wounds. If you wish to do nothing then least you can do is Start thinking Positive about life . Dream a positive future. Things will go easy & smooth. "Let the bygones be the bygones'' :p

And from a religious view point your soul would not be at peace if you kill yourself, but in worst torment and pain.

Alty you are a nice person nice to know you care about me even you don't know me :( I need you by my side can you do that for me I'm so scared to do any thing because I'm thinking to cut my hand >email address removed according to site rules<

Heartache.. Woooow you know how I feel I'm sorry because you are in the same phase :( I can't stop thinking abou him he's killing me

Alty you are a nice person nice to know you care about me even you don't know me :( i need you by my side can you do that 4 me im so scared to do any thing because im thinking to cut my hand >email address removed according to site rules<

I can't email you, that's against the rules of this site, but I will be here on this site to help you. I can't be her 24/7, but whenever you want to talk, post here, and when I see it I'll post right away, I promise you that.

There are great people on this site, and all of them are here to help you, if you give them a chance. But most of all, you have to give yourself a chance.

I promise you that suicide isn't the answer. I will tell you that I considered suicide a few times in my life. I went through, and still struggle with, depression. Had I not gotten through, not fought against the feelings that I wanted to end things, I wouldn't be here talking to you. I wouldn't be married to the wonderful man I'm married to. I wouldn't have my two beautiful children. I can't say that the world would be worse if I wasn't in it, but I do know it would be worse for the people that love me, and those that I love. Heck, my children wouldn't exist. That's a big deal.

You were given this life, and it's yours, what you make of it is your choice. There will be struggles, we all face them. Giving up is easy. In fact, it's so very easy to sit back and say "I'm done". Getting up, dusting yourself off, finding a way to deal with the struggles you're going through, that takes a lot of strength.

You came to this site for a reason. I know that you posted that you wanted to know how to end things, but really, your question was a cry for help, your way of saying that you're in a hard spot, but that you want to get out of it. In other words, you have the strength you need to get through this. You already took the first big step, and that's reaching out for help. Take the next step, the step towards feeling better and getting over this hurdle.

You may not think you can do it, but I know you can! You can, and you will.

Heartache .. Woooow you know how i feel im sorry because you are in the same phase :( i can't stop thinking abou him he's killing me

Does he deserve that power? I don't think he does. How great can he be? He doesn't deserve you, and he definitely doesn't deserve to be given the power to ruin your life, or end it. Does he? Is he worth the best thing you have, your life, you?

You're giving him that power. You have the power to take back what's yours, and your life is definitely yours.

Here's a little something you can do for me, right on this site. Write a list about him. The pros and the cons. Be very honest when you write it, don't let your feelings for him cloud your judgement, view him the way everyone else would.

So, what's so great about him? What are his pros? What's not so great about him? What are his cons? I know he has them, everyone does. So, what do you hate about him, and what do you love?

I'll be back in around an hour to read your list. I have to go out for a bit, but I will be back. Take your time with the list, really give it a lot of thought. :)

Okkk about the list

First thing that I love about him.

1) he here me
2) protect me
3) make me smile
4)he's like my angel always by my side

Thing that's I hate about him
1) when he dosen't ask about me
2) when he scream on me
3) when he talk to another girl he forget me
4) when he cheating on me
5) make me cry over him

Read the list sweetie.

1) he here me. Hearing and listening are two different things, if he really heard you he wouldn't scream at you or talk to other girls and forget about you.
2) protect me How does he protect you? By cheating on you? That's not protecting you, that's hurting you.
3) make me smile He makes you smile, but it sounds like he spent more time making your upset and making you cry.
4)he's like my angel always by my side But he isn't. Read the things you hate about him.

Thing that's I hate about him
1) when he dosen't ask about me
2) when he scream on me
3) when he talk to another girl he forget me
4) when he cheating on me
5) make me cry over him

The things you like about him, every one of those things are tiny compared to what you hate about him. The things you hate about him are legitimate things.

I'll write my list about my husband, maybe you'll see the difference.

The things I love about my husband.

1. He's supportive of everything I do.
2. He's a wonderful husband and father.
3. He loves animals as much as I do.
4. He's a hard worker.
5. He's my best friend.
6. Whenever I'm sad, he can make me smile.
7. He's never been unfaithful to me.
8. He treats me like I'm the best thing in the world.

The things I hate about my husband.

1. He snores.
2. He leaves his dirty clothes on the floor.
3. He sometimes works too hard.
4. He likes to play xbox.
5. He's a bit messy.


Do you see the difference between my list and yours? The things I love about my husband are real things, things he does every single day. The things I don't like aren't things that will ever hurt me, because someone that loves you would never hurt you.

Your ex, he didn't treat you like someone who loves someone else, would treat you.

Don't you think you deserve someone better than that? I think you do.

I know the person who make me cry evrey single day doen'd deserve me but how can I forget all the sweet thing we share 2 gather he keep call me he want to be my friend I need my space but I can't tell them that :/

I know the person who make me cry evrey single day doen'd deserve me but how can i forget all the sweet thing we share 2 gather he keep call me he wanna be my friend i need my space but i can't tell them that :/

Have you told him how sad you are, that you're going through a hard time because of him? Have you told him that until he leaves you alone you can't get over him, which is exactly what you need to do?

I really do understand. We all do. We've all been dumped, and had our hearts broken.

But really, you will get over it. You just need to give yourself time and space from him. You also need to go live your life, and make the most of every single day.

Well first before you even think about that, ask yourself this question
"If i went to hell, would I kill myself?"
Because you may go to hell if you kill yourself and you will get threw this, its not the end of the world enjoy being single, don't jump right into another relationship either that will make you look silly.
If you two where meant to be then fate will bring you back together, if not, then obviously you two were not meant to be and you will find someone else, someone better,

Well first before you even think about that, ask yourself this question
"If i went to hell, would I kill myself?"
because you may go to hell if you kill yourself and you will get threw this, its not the end of the world enjoy being single, dont jump right into another relationship either that will make you look silly.
If you two where meant to be then fate will bring you back together, if not, then obviously you two were not meant to be and you will find someone else, someone better,

I do agree with everything but one point, and that's the part about hell. This isn't the religious forum. We have no idea if the poster is religious or even believes in God, Hell, or any of that. It's best not to assume.

So, until the poster says that she's a believer, please keep God out of it.

I promise you that suicide isn't the answer. I will tell you that I considered suicide a few times in my life. I went through, and still struggle with, depression. Had I not gotten through, not fought against the feelings that I wanted to end things, I wouldn't be here talking to you. I wouldn't be married to the wonderful man I'm married to. I wouldn't have my two beautiful children. I can't say that the world would be worse if I wasn't in it, but I do know it would be worse for the people that love me, and those that I love. Heck, my children wouldn't exist. That's a big deal.

Alty has a lot of wisdom in her responses and I'm happy that you are keeping the communication open. I can honestly tell you that what you are feeling and what Alty has described in the quoted piece is not so uncommon. I've been there myself. I used to call it the dark place. My mom was my guiding light out of the dark place when I was a teenager. If it weren't for her I wouldn't be here today. If it was bullies or relationships I was stuck in the dark place.

It wasn't until I was an adult that I understood what I had been living with for a big portion of my life. Depression is not something to be ignored :( I guess it's hereditary in some cases, my mom and I are depression medicine lifers. Add anxiety on top of that and high blood pressure and my medicine cabinet is full (joking :) )

Princess, we are here for you but can you tell me, are you close with your parents, a family member, specific friend or family physician? I have consoled with each of these and they have brought me out of the dark place a many a time. I know it's hard to talk about something like this to others but you need to talk to someone in person so they can hug you and tell you that they love you. You don't even have to mention the decision weighing on your mind. Tell them you are hurting and you need them to help you.

This guy will realize the mistake that he has made eventually (whether it's a week, month, year(s) down the road). You sound like a very caring and loving young woman and you deserve someone that is able to return the love to you.

Please Princess, keep posting your feelings and responses. I'm with Alty, there are more people on this site that will listen to how you are feeling and try to help you through this dark time.

Have you told him how sad you are, that you're going through a hard time because of him? Have you told him that until he leaves you alone you can't get over him, which is exactly what you need to do?

I really do understand. We all do. We've all been dumped, and had our hearts broken.

But really, you will get over it. You just need to give yourself time and space from him. You also need to go live your life, and make the most of every single day.
First evrey time you comment here you make me smile I don't know why :|

I know that I need my space but he dosen't even care what I need he just care about himself I don't have the power to say stay away from me " ican't take it anymore"

Well first before you even think about that, ask yourself this question
"If i went to hell, would I kill myself?"
because you may go to hell if you kill yourself and you will get threw this, its not the end of the world enjoy being single, dont jump right into another relationship either that will make you look silly.
If you two where meant to be then fate will bring you back together, if not, then obviously you two were not meant to be and you will find someone else, someone better,
I know that if I killed myself I will be in hell but when someone hopeless he dosen't care or think what's going to happened all I need to end this life :|

Alty has a lot of wisdom in her responses and I'm happy that you are keeping the communication open. I can honestly tell you that what you are feeling and what Alty has described in the quoted piece is not so uncommon. I've been there myself. I used to call it the dark place. My mom was my guiding light out of the dark place when I was a teenager. If it weren't for her I wouldn't be here today. If it was bullies or relationships I was stuck in the dark place.

It wasn't until I was an adult that I understood what I had been living with for a big portion of my life. Depression is not something to be ignored :( I guess it's hereditary in some cases, my mom and I are depression medicine lifers. Add anxiety on top of that and high blood pressure and my medicine cabinet is full (joking :) )

Princess, we are here for you but can you tell me, are you close with your parents, a family member, specific friend or family physician? I have consoled with each of these and they have brought me out of the dark place a many a time. I know it's hard to talk about something like this to others but you need to talk to someone in person so they can hug you and tell you that they love you. You don't even have to mention the decision weighing on your mind. Tell them you are hurting and you need them to help you.

This guy will realize the mistake that he has made eventually (whether it's a week, month, year(s) down the road). You sound like a very caring and loving young woman and you deserve someone that is able to return the love to you.

Please Princess, keep posting your feelings and responses. I'm with Alty, there are more people on this site that will listen to how you are feeling and try to help you through this dark time.
Really now I feel more comfortable because I find people who really care
About my family in our society and our religion not allowed to be in relationship so I'm alone in that proplem I can't tell thim anything :|
I will keep posting thank you all

You are still saying you want to end your LIFE. Yet you ignored my cold, practical response about ways to die painlessly. That is a very strong clue to all of us (yes, I did it on purpose) that you want to end the PAIN, not your life. You like Alty's comforting and helpful responses. You are getting the help you want.
The next step is to go back to the friends you have avoided! This is what friends are for! They surround you with love and support, take you places, don't try to cheer you up but drag you everywhere they go - if you just ask them to. Tell them to just let you be depressed for a while, sort of pretend you aren't there. That way you don't have to be the life of the party or even cheerful.
You don't want to lose them. They are what matter through all the failed romances.

Really now i feel more comfortable because i find people who really care
About my family in our society and our religion not allowed to be in relationship so im alone in that proplem i can't tell thim anything :|
I will keep posting thank you all


So you were dating him in secret ?

So you were dating him in secret ?
Yes I'm dating him in secret but once my parents know and talk to him his parents know about us but my parents dosen't expect to be in relationship with him

Yes im dating him in secret but once my parents know and talk to him his parents know about us but my parents dosen't expect to be in relationship with him


I have no idea what this means - you are dating him in secret but if your parents find out they will tell his parents? Your parents know you are friends but don't know you are boyfriend and girlfriend?

So you are both lying to your parents about the relationship?

He cheats on you and in general treats you badly and you are considering killing yourself to teach him a lesson? Sounds like a very bad plan to me. I'm the exception to the rule, I guess. I don't take threats of suicide lightly. A friend of mine killed herself years ago - no one took her seriously. I certainly never thought she was planning suicide.

You need some serious professional help.

I have no idea what this means - you are dating him in secret but if your parents find out they will tell his parents? Your parents know you are friends but don't know you are boyfriend and girlfriend?

So you are both lying to your parents about the relationship?

He cheats on you and in general treats you badly and you are considering killing yourself to teach him a lesson? Sounds like a very bad plan to me. I'm the exception to the rule, I guess. I don't take threats of suicide lightly. A friend of mine killed herself years ago - no one took her seriously. I certainly never thought she was planning suicide.

You need some serious professional help.

Yeah I need to make him miss me I need to learn him a leason I want to make him sad

You are still saying you want to end your LIFE. Yet you ignored my cold, practical response about ways to die painlessly. That is a very strong clue to all of us (yes, I did it on purpose) that you want to end the PAIN, not your life. You like Alty's comforting and helpful responses. You are getting the help you want.
The next step is to go back to the friends you have avoided! This is what friends are for! They surround you with love and support, take you places, don't try to cheer you up but drag you everywhere they go - if you just ask them to. Tell them to just let you be depressed for a while, sort of pretend you aren't there. That way you don't have to be the life of the party or even cheerful.
You don't want to lose them. They are what matter through all the failed romances.

But I don't think friends will help because evrey time we meet we talk about him :/

But i don't think friends will help because evrey time we meet we talk about him :/
Tell them his name is off limits, no talking about him ever again.

Yeah i need to make him miss me i need to learn him a leason i wanna make him sad


You can't make anyone do anything - you need to talk to a professional. You are allowing this boy to control your life.

I know that if i killed my self i will be in hell but when someone hopeless he dosen't care or think what's gona happend all i need to end this life :|
If you need someone to talk to you can message me, I will be here for you, its not a good idea to end you life though. I think that you will find someone better. I have been in the same type of situation as you. But like I said just message me when you need something.

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Yeah i need to make him miss me i need to learn him a leason i wanna make him sad

You want to kill yourself to hurt him and teach him a lesson? I'd say this goes beyond depression and sounds more like anger to me. You need professional counseling in my honest opinion.

At this point I'm wondering what you are wanting from this thread. Morally or legally I won't involve myself in advising you on how to end your life. I am more than willing to try and talk you down from a ledge but from your answers to the advise it doesn't seem like you are willing to make an effort to get the help from your parents or friends. Please consider seeing a licensed specialist that can help you through this.

You want to kill yourself to hurt him and teach him a lesson? I'd say this goes beyond depression and sounds more like anger to me. You need professional counseling in my honest opinion.

At this point I'm wondering what you are wanting from this thread. Morally or legally I won't involve myself in advising you on how to end your life. I am more than willing to try and talk you down from a ledge but from your answers to the advise it doesn't seem like you are willing to make an effort to get the help from your parents or friends. Please consider seeing a licensed specialist that can help you through this.


And here's where it gets complicated - she can't talk to her parents who don't know she was dating him, behind their backs: "Yes im dating him in secret but once my parents know and talk to him his parents know about us but my parents dosen't expect to be in relationship with him"

I think OP is looking for sympathy and is not willing to take one step to help herself.

I do understand, but really, dying isn't the answer.

You need to get out of this slump you're in.

Will you do me a favor? Just one.

Today will you call one of your friends, go out and do something special with that friend. It can be anything. Going to the mall and window shopping, going out for ice caps, going to a movie, or just going for a walk. But go out!

Then, when you get home, write how going out made you feel today.

Don't go out thinking "it's not going to help". Give it your best. Go out with a positive attitude and try to have fun. Okay?

One thing about depression, it can make us isolate ourselves. We don't want to be around people. It's understandable, but it actually makes things worse. Then, the longer we isolate ourselves the more we want to be alone and the more depressed we get because of it.

I know that right now the thought of going out and having fun probably gives you a stomach ache, and you already have excuses for not doing it. Right? Well push through all those excuses and go. I think you may be surprised to find that you'll have more fun that you think you will.

Just give it a try? Please?

Do you know what happened today I call my friend to go out we went to caffe guess what I see him :|||

Do you know what happend today i call my friend to go out we went to caffe guess what i see him :|||


You don't want to hear this. I realize you would rather suffer BUT it's a free world. He can go anywhere he wants to go.

Is this a café you knew he frequents?

You don't want to hear this. I realize you would rather suffer BUT it's a free world. He can go anywhere he wants to go.



Is this a cafe you knew he frequents?
No he don't love this coffe :| I saw him and my ex boyfriend he think I'm back to my ex

Yeah i need to make him miss me i need to learn him a leason i wanna make him sad
Girl if he lies and cheats on you, I doubt that he will feel sad.
I think you are hurt and you want him to hurt too. Killing yourself is not going to do the trick. Moving on with your life and being happy without him will be the ticket.

He needs to be told to stop calling you and you need to stop answering his calls. You also need to get some professional help.
How old are you?

If you need someone to talk to you can message me, I will be here for you, its not a good idea to end you life though. I think that you will find someone better. I have been in the same type of situation as you. But like I said just message me when you need something.

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Thank you really I need someone to talk to him

You need some professional help. How old are you?

And here's where it gets complicated - she can't talk to her parents who don't know she was dating him, behind their backs: "Yes im dating him in secret but once my parents know and talk to him his parents know about us but my parents dosen't expect to be in relationship with him"

I think OP is looking for sympathy and is not willing to take one step to help herself.

I agree Judy. I just find it interesting that it isn't socially or religiously acceptable for her to have a boyfriend but she's thinking of suicide which I would assume is worse than having a boyfriend. So if it's a dishonor your family issue, what's worse? Having a boyfriend in secret or committing suicide?

Princess I know nothing about your society or religion so I leave this discussion with the above question. If your family isn't a possibility to confide in, than I still stand that you need to talk to a professional in this field.

I agree Judy. I just find it interesting that it isn't socially or religiously acceptable for her to have a boyfriend but she's thinking of suicide which I would assume is worse than having a boyfriend. So if it's a dishonor your family issue, what's worse? Having a boyfriend in secret or committing suicide?

Princess I know nothing about your society or religion so I leave this discussion with the above question. If your family isn't a possibility to confide in, than I still stand that you need to talk to a professional in this field.
How can I go to professional who can take me I can't tell my parents you need professional and if I tell them and asked me why what can I say :| I'm lonely in this proplem :(((

I think some of the despair you are feeling comes from lying to your parents. When you have to sneak and deceive it takes a toll on you. You can't share this with anyone because your parents will discover your lie.
Being away from this boy is probably a good thing. I know you don't feel it right now but it is.
Since you won't say how old you are, I'm going to assume you are a young teen. This boy is no good for you anyway. Do you have girl friends, a social life? You need to start having some fun. You are mooning over a guy who cheated on you and did not treat you very well. Was it because he is your first boyfriend that you put up with this?

I think some of the despair you are feeling comes from lying to your parents. When you have to sneak and deceive it takes a toll on you. You can't share this with anyone because your parents will discover your lie.
Being away from this boy is probably a good thing. I know you don't feel it right now but it is.
Since you won't say how old you are, I'm going to assume you are a young teen. This boy is no good for you anyway. Do you have girl friends, a social life? You need to start having some fun. You are mooning over a guy who cheated on you and did not treat you very well. Was it because he is your first boyfriend that you put up with this?

He's not the first boyfriend but he's the one I love I can't forget him I miss him he make me smile when he call me my angel ican't forget anything about him :| I can't leave him 4 another girl.. Today is the date we meet each other so this is the perfect day to kill
Myself ;)

He's not the first bf but he's the one i love i can't forget him i miss him he make me smile when he call me my angel ican't forget anything about him :| i can't leave him 4 another girl .. Today is the date we meet each other so this is the perfect day to kill
My self ;)


I may or may not be the only one who feels this way but, quite frankly, I've put a lot of time into this thread, into your problems, and you keep coming back with your threats of suicide.

You don't want help - you want to go someplace where you can whine and complain.

You need to stop lying to your parents; stop sneaking around behind their backs; stop obsessing over this person who very obviously is finished with you (and if you are anything in person like you are on line, needy, whining, threatening, I can understand that); get professional help (call a mental help hotline, talk to someone at school, stop lying to your family and ask for help); and grow up.

Thirty-three days and 55 posts later and you've made absolutely no progress because you very obviously don't want to make any progress.

I, quite frankly, am beyond frustrated with you and into bored. That's about as honest as it gets.

I've been followinf your story and in the very initials I supported you too. But you're right Judy. What was your purpose of posting your problem on this site, when you had to ignore all the opinions , support and evrything? You wanted sympathy? Or do you really want someone to crib and cry over you that don't suicide. I was in a abusive relationship , I posted my problem , experts gave me there advise , I understood them ,followed them Imbibed them... And this is how it goes. But seems like you've been adamantly stuck upon one single thought. I.e. suicide. Will you call it bravery to kill yourself for a fool , just for the sake of REVENGE? I may sound rude , but I will call it sheer MADNESS. Ok today
You kill a self for a loser , how long do you think will it leave an impact on him a day ? A week? A month? But then he'll forget it & move on in his life & what did you do , you WASTED your life & your death ! Yes you got that right you'll just Waste it. The one who does not care now , won't carr in the future too. You are being stupid.
Why don't you just try , try living a hard life for sometime? I don't think killing is better than trying is it? May be you get your prince charming on the path of trying rather than suiciding. Suicide is an act done by cowards. There is absolutely no bravery in this.Though you need professional help but since you
Can't seek professional help , OK! But at least You can help yourself . Be a little flexible . Or open to the long list of opinions that have been given to you on this site.
Cribbing onto one thing will do no good. You are just harming yourself more by this attitude.
Start being positive.
Remember , god help those who help themselves.
Similar is the situation with humans. Your friends and everyone. We all can suggest you. But if you will give a deaf ear to everything that everybody says . No one will stand by you , in your support .
Grow up, you're just a kiddo!

Are you just hoping your ex will see all these post and come back to you?
I think you are enjoying this attention.
You don't want help because you are getting it here and you are not even paying attention.
Stop lying to your parents, talk to a counselor at school, and be glad this boy is out of your life. This is just pure dysfunction.

Are you just hoping your ex will see all these post and come back to you?
I think you are enjoying this attention.
You don't want help because you are getting it here and you are not even paying attention.
Stop lying to your parents, talk to a counselor at school, and be glad this boy is out of your life. This is just pure dysfunction.


My suspicion is that we are seeing here the very reasons her parents don't want her to date and she has to go behind their backs. Immaturity.

Yep!

Are you just hoping your ex will see all these post and come back to you?
I think you are enjoying this attention.
You don't want help because you are getting it here and you are not even paying attention.
Stop lying to your parents, talk to a counselor at school, and be glad this boy is out of your life. This is just pure dysfunction.
What to you saying I don't need any attention all I need someone can say to me step by step what I should do

People here have told you that. I just told you that. Stop lying to your parents, talk to a counselor and be glad this boy is out of your life.

I've been followinf your story and in the very initials i supported you too. But you're right Judy. What was your purpose of posting your problem on this site, when you had to ignore all the opinions , support and evrything? You wanted sympathy? Or do you really want someone to crib and cry over you that don't suicide. I was in a abusive relationship , i posted my problem , experts gave me there advise , i understood them ,followed them Imbibed them ... And this is how it goes. But seems like you've been adamantly stuck upon one single thought. I.e. suicide. Will you call it bravery to kill yourself for a fool , just for the sake of REVENGE? I may sound rude , but i will call it sheer MADNESS. Ok today
You kill a self for a loser , how long do you think will it leave an impact on him a day ? A week? A month? But then he'll forget it & move on in his life & what did you do , you WASTED your life & your death ! Yes u got that right you'll just Waste it. The one who does not care now , wont carr in the future too. You are being stupid.
Why don't you just try , try living a hard life for sometime? I don't think killing is better than trying is it? May be you get your prince charming on the path of trying rather than suiciding. Suicide is an act done by cowards. There is absolutely no bravery in this.Though u need professional help but since you
can't seek professional help , ok! But atleast You can help yourself . Be a little flexible . Or open to the long list of opinions that have been given to you on this site.
Cribbing onto one thing will do no good. You are just harming yourself more by this attitude.
Start being positive.
Remember , god help those who help themselves.
Similar is the situation with humans. Your friends and everyone. We all can suggest you. But if you will give a deaf ear to everything that everybody says . No one will stand by you , in your support .
Grow up, you're just a kiddo!
Im about to tell my parents about evreything this is the right way

People here have told you that. I just told you that. Stop lying to your parents, talk to a counselor and be glad this boy is out of your life.. Today I'm going to tell my parents about him

What to you saying i don't need any attention all i need someone can say to me step by step what i should do


We've told you step by step. I don't think you need someone to brush your teeth, get dressed, talk to your parents.

Stop posting suicide threats and do something. I'd print this entire thread out and hand it to your parents as part of your "talk" with them.

I trust you'll be back to tell us what they say - ?

[QUOTE=JudyKayTee;3239587]We've told you step by step. I don't think you need someone to brush your teeth, get dressed, talk to your parents.

Stop posting suicide threats and do something. I'd print this entire thread out and hand it to your parents as part of your "talk" with them.

I trust you'll be back to tell us what they say - ?

I told my mom she hugs me she ask about him and she say " im here for you i can't let anything happend 2 you " then starting to cry

i told my mom she hugs me she ask about him and she say " im here for you i can't let anything happend 2 you " then starting to cry


I still think you are playing games - I simply find it impossible to believe that in exactly 35 minutes you had time to sit down and have a talk with your mother, explain the situation, get past why you lied to her, have a hugging and crying conversation, tell her you want to kill yourself over him and get back onto AMHD to post what happened.

It's taken you 30 posts - 30 of your posts - to explain the situation here.

Sorry - you are playing with us.

I still think you are playing games - I simply find it impossible to believe that in exactly 35 minutes you had time to sit down and have a talk with your mother, explain the situation, get past why you lied to her, have a hugging and crying conversation, tell her you want to kill yourself over him and get back onto AMHD to post what happened.

It's taken you 30 posts - 30 of your posts - to explain the situation here.

Sorry - you are playing with us.

I don't tell my mom I'm going to kill myself my I told my mom about him she know from the begin that I'm lying and dating him in secret don't be so rude to tell me I'm playing gameees OK?

I don't tell my mom im gonna kill my self my i told my mom about him she know from the begin that im lying and dating him in secret don't be so rude to tell me im playing gameees ok?


You asked for advice - that's what you got. Tell your parents the whole story. You came back and said you talked to your Mom. There simply wasn't time for a big discussion. Read what YOU posted: "Im about to tell my parents about evreything this is the right way" Instead, that's not what happened. It did get any heat off you, though. You are playing.

So you are suicidal and didn't tell anyone.

I think you are both playing and not being truthful. You aren't honest with your parents. Why would I think you're honest with a bunch of strangers.

You didn't tell your mother you are suicidal. You just said you have been dating behind her back, love this person, he's ended it, and her response was, " im here for you i can't let anything happend 2 you " then starting to cry." That seems rather over the top. She can't let anything happen to you? What does she think is going to happen to you?

It's a public board. Expect a variety of opinions.

Atlest im asking for help ;) im not like you acting
You are very immature and rude young lady. It is hard to take someone like you seriously.

Atlest im asking for help ;) im not like you acting


I've asked that the thread be closed - you are asking for help. You just aren't doing anything constructive with the advice.

If you do decide to commit suicide I think it's best that AMHD not be involved.

(I assume that "I'm not acting like you acting" means -? )

Atlest im asking for help ;) im not like you acting
But are you trying to improve based on the help you have been given?

I'm at the same point Judy is--ready to give up on you. Now, why would that be?

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