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Angel4JAW1
Jul 14, 2012, 03:11 PM
I don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 2 years now. At first he seemed to be the most caring , loveable person, which I know he is deep down. He just started to act strange one day, with starting to get very very nasty with the things he says. If things doesn't seem to go his way, he gets rude. Whatever I do( which is everything ), it never seems to be enough for him. He is always unhappy and his words hurt me so terribly. I love this man so exceptionally much, that I couldn't imagine a life without him. But I also can't keep on living with this enormous hurt and rejection. I need advice. Thanks a lot xx

bethanynjesse
Jul 14, 2012, 04:13 PM
You need to bring it up to him when he is at his calmest. When he is doing something he likes or something he does a lot. Don't accuse him, don't raise your voice. If you stay calm, he'll stay calm. Just ask him what's been bothering him lately, and ask him why he's been acting so strange. You'll never know until you ask. Just be gentle and kind.
If this doesn't work, he's obviously a changed man, not the same man you've fallen for, and you need to start looking at your other options. No man should ever slander a woman, and vice versa.