PDA

View Full Version : Love


Ed1319
Jul 13, 2012, 04:39 PM
Hello my name is Tony, and am in love with my straight guy friend, we have about ten years having gay sex, and now he is starting to have sex with one of my friend(girl), and I send him a message saying how I feel about him, and since that day I told him he doesn't talk to me anymore, but he was the one looking for me and sometimes I was the one, What should I do??

Gamed
Jul 13, 2012, 04:41 PM
You had gay sex with him for 10 years.

Gamed
Jul 13, 2012, 04:42 PM
??

Ed1319
Jul 13, 2012, 05:04 PM
Yes
you had gay sex with him for 10 years.

Gamed
Jul 13, 2012, 05:14 PM
You had gay sex with your straight friend for 10 years? After 10 years of gay sex I hardly believe he's straight he's obviously bi sexual. Was this just a friends with benefits situation or was it a committed relationship. If you were committed then he's just a cheater and you should deserve better. If it was a friends with benefits situation then you should have realized this was going to happen at some point.

Enigma1999
Jul 13, 2012, 07:25 PM
Move on.

Ed1319
Jul 13, 2012, 10:25 PM
It was a friend with benefits situation
You had gay sex with your straight friend for 10 years? After 10 years of gay sex I hardly believe hes straight hes obviously bi sexual. Was this just a friends with benefits situation or was it a commited relationship. If you were commited then hes just a cheater and you should deserve better. If it was a friends with benefits situation then you should of realized this was going to happen at some point.

smoothy
Jul 14, 2012, 01:01 PM
News flash... he isn't and wasn't "straight". Straight guys don't have GAY sex.

Ed1319
Jul 14, 2012, 02:26 PM
What should I do?

Enigma1999
Jul 14, 2012, 02:51 PM
Don't do anything. Leave him alone. Move on. You were exactly what you said you were... friends with benefits.

And now? He has a new "friend".

Ed1319
Jul 14, 2012, 03:31 PM
But is so hard, because I see him almost everyday because we live in the same apartments and his mom and my mom are best friends so I have to see him but he doesn't talk to me!!

Enigma1999
Jul 14, 2012, 04:15 PM
Ok fine. So you do your thing and let him do his. If he waves, then wave back. If not, then so be it.

Enigma1999
Jul 14, 2012, 04:16 PM
Oh and the title of your thread should not be "love". It should be infatuation.

Ed1319
Jul 14, 2012, 10:40 PM
Should I still talk to him or not!!

Enigma1999
Jul 14, 2012, 10:43 PM
No!! Move on!!

Ed1319
Jul 14, 2012, 11:14 PM
It's going to be so hard, but OK, I think is going to be better for me.

JudyKayTee
Jul 15, 2012, 07:29 AM
News flash.....he isn't and wasn't "straight". Straight guys dont have GAY sex.


Well, that pretty much sums it up.

Let's try the word "bi." I do think "bi" might now be followed by "prefers females."