I no there a loads of posts on here about very similar situations but I need some help myself with this.

So after almost 2 weeks of being on and off, unsure of where she stands with me, my girlfriend told me she wants to be just friends. She keeps apologising and she also said that it's just how she feels at the moment but it might change and then what.

This happened yesterday and so last night I was just talking to her as a friend...
But today I feel like crap

I'm having a party tonight, having my friends over and I've invited her
She says she understands if I don't want to be around her but she wants to be friends...
I just don't really know what to do when I'm with her, and when I'm not as well...

I've got my A-level finals coming up and at the moment I can't keep my mind off her...
I just need some guidance...

I am in no position to offer advice. I broke up with my ex and I want him back, but he just wants to remain friends. It is incredibly hard to be friends with an ex afterwards because you still have all these feelings towards each other. My ex says he has no idea what he wants out of life, maybe that's your girls feelings on things... she just simply does not know. I cannot take my mind off my ex either. I hear it gets easier though. It takes time, and sometimes time just seems too much. Hope that helped, even the tiniest bit!

I can easily understand that you may have such strong feelings for her that the idea of stepping down to "just friends" is simply too painful. It would be for many people in your shoes. If that is the case, allow yourself the freedom to not see her at all. It may be a royal pain to have to rearrange your life so that you don't run into her but it is often the shortest and most solid way out of the pain of a break up. If she has any caring feelings for you at all, she'll understand too. I am sorry for your loss. Don't be someone's yoyo -- real love does not require that of us.

Well, she has told me she'l understand if I want to do that. But the thing is, I'm at college with her, and I see her everyday, so I don't see the point in trying to stay away, because then when I do see her it's just as bad... I don't know how I should act