I just broke up with someone I love very much. We were engaged. I was gentle, expressed my pain at the realization that we just weren't meant for each other, was sorrowful and caring about his feelings. He didn't say much of anything. He has vacillated between acting like nothing is wrong and pissy. It has been 1 week, literally. His stuff is still here in our house. Now I think he is already back out there. We had been together for over 2 years. He added her to his FB page. I think this is cruel. I am still crying my butt off at the why's and why not's and he is moving on. Is this cruel or insensitive? I expect him to move on but this fast and flaunting it in a forum I am on. I don't understand this hurtfulness during break ups. I am always so considerate of others feelings and respectful that it is like a punch in the gut when guys are like this. Is this cruelty or a difference in the way men and women think and I am just clueless?