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vanreyk
Jul 8, 2012, 11:47 PM
Hi
I am in relation with a jacobite guy, and I belong to scheduled caste christian category.We both are 25, and being keralities are throuh the turmoils which cannot be prevented in any manner. Well we both have jobs and well settled career wise, but our parents are not luking into it and both of them are refusing for marriage. But then we both don't want to marry without our parents consent.

In between my dad called up his family and told that they are not intrested in this relation. And now the most funniest part is even my mom and dad did love marriage( my dad belongs to scheduled caste christian community and mom is muslim). The step taken by my parents has left a bad imprint about our family in theirs. Now we both seriously don't know what to do, seriously we both won't be happy if we marry someone else.
Please help me out... please

Fr_Chuck
Jul 9, 2012, 04:47 AM
The arranged marriage and the caste system is not "christian" it is a social system of your culture.

But you said it all when you said you both would not marry without parents permission, they are not giving it, so you break up and move on, if you are not willing to do a love marriage