We were going through it we both cheated!! But I still love him but he is married and I am too he married a girl and I married the girl brother and I'm so unhappy but she never lets him go anywhere but over time my ex boyfriend and his wife get into it he always runs to me and I let him cause important still in love with him please help I need him back

You both divorce and get back to each other.

But in reality till you both divorce you don't do anything

THis sounds like a very confused situation. Please tell me that no children are involved.