My husband and I have been married for 20 years starting on July 19th. I had went through his email and found he had been talking to these girls on a dating site.he keeps saying that he is going to bring them down here so he can be with them. They keep telling each other they love them. As soon as I find out he had been doing that I confronted him and he said I never loved you. I only married you because you were pregnant. After 20 years he tells me this. I don't know what is going on with him. He is telling these girls about me that I don't love him. He is even giving me day to get out of the house. I am trying to fight for him. Has anybody been in the situation? I don't know whether to get a lawyer and show the emails to him or just fight for him. Because I love him so much. I'm not a skinny woman by no means, but he has been losing weight only eating fruits and vegetables. I haven't been able to eat because my nerves are tore up. About 2 weeks ago he wanted me to get a job so I could help out. Why was he asking me to get a job if he didn't want me here. Does he just want me to help with the bills and that's it like a roommate thing. I'm so so confused. Can someone talk to me?
Oh did I mention that he has already signed papers to get our son out of the house. He's 18 but he can't live out on his own. He had been going through therapy since he was 11. He has no where to go as do I.