I have a question I need an obgyn to answer. Im trying to get pregnant and something weird is happened. Anyone know were to go? I am looking for a freesite. I have found sites but they want $75 to answer. I can't afford that.

What is it that is happening? We are a free site.

I have to ask, if you can't afford $75 how are you going to afford a baby?

I can afford the 75 follars I don't think I should have to pay 75 dollars for one question to be answered.

I can afford the 75 follars I don't think I should have to pay 75 dollars for one question to be answered.

I agree, but that's not what you said in your original question. Your direct quote is;


I can't afford that.

And sending me a PM because you're incised that I would suggest that you can't afford it, is strange. You yourself said you couldn't. We can only base our answers on what you write. We can't read minds.

We base any and everything we do on your exact words, if you can do not want to pay, you say that.

We asked you to "ask your questions" we have experts here we do not charge anything, you may donate if you like their answers but that is not required.

I have to add that no one can give a medical diagnosis online, no matter how much you pay, and no matter their occupation.

But, we have yet to hear your question, so there's really no way to know if we can help or not.

Why not try telling us what's going on. Like I said before, we can't read minds. :)

What is it that is happening? We are a free site.

Ok so here is my question. I am tracking my ovulation for the first time. We are really trying to get pregnet. My first day of my ovulation was on thr 5th. So we had intercourse that evening. The next day in the late afternoon I strated bleeding. The only difference is I took top during sex which isn't a normal for me. I am still bleeding today and it is the 8th. This is the first time we have tried to get pregnant sense our daughter passed away during delivery two years ago. My last day of my ovulation is on the 9th. My periods are normal every 30 days. My last period was on the 21st last month. So I am no whete near dure for my next period. So why would I bleed the next day and for this long? I do have a regular obgyn. I just didn't want to call her if it's stupid worrieing and nothing I needto be seen for. Thanks for listening well reading. Hope you can give some good advice and help

Ok so here is my question. I am tracking my ovulation for the first time. We are really trying to get pregnet. My first day of my ovulation was on thr 5th. So we had intercourse that evening. The next day in the late afternoon i strated bleeding. The only difference is i took top during sex which isnt a normal for me. I am still bleeding today and it is the 8th. This is the first time we have tryed to get pregnent sence our daughter passed away during delivery two years ago. My last day of my ovulation is on the 9th. My periods are normal every 30 days. My last period was on the 21st last month. So i am no whete near dure for my next period. So why would i bleed the next day and for this long? I do have a regular obgyn. I just didnt want to call her if it's stupid worrieing and nothing i needto be seen for. Thanks for listening well reading. Hope u can give some good advice and help

Ashley, I do think J_9 will be able to give you some advice (not a diagnosis). I don't know if she's online right now. She's a labor delivery nurse, works crazy hours, and as such, can't be here all the time. We all volunteer here.

Please, give her a few hours, or more, keep checking back periodically to see if she's posted a response. It can take a while, especially since we all have jobs, family, and do this in our spare time.

I have no advice to give. To me this is unusual. The only thing I can think of is that the sex may have been too rough, or you weren't well lubricated, or the fact that you were on top, which you normally aren't, could have had something to do with this. But, I wouldn't expect you to be bleeding for days with any of the above.

Is this bleeding like a normal period? Is it heavy bleeding? Light? Dark red? Brownish? How many pads do you fill a day? Is it more like spotting, or steady?

Ashley, I do think J_9 will be able to give you some advice (not a diagnosis). I don't know if she's online right now. She's a labor delivery nurse, works crazy hours, and as such, can't be here all the time. We all volunteer here.

Please, give her a few hours, or more, keep checking back periodically to see if she's posted a response. It can take a while, especially since we all have jobs, family, and do this in our spare time.

I have no advice to give. To me this is unusual. The only thing I can think of is that the sex may have been too rough, or you weren't well lubricated, or the fact that you were on top, which you normally aren't, could have had something to do with this. But, I wouldn't expect you to be bleeding for days with any of the above.

Is this bleeding like a normal period? Is it heavy bleeding? Light? Dark red? Brownish? How many pads do you fill a day? Is it more like spotting, or steady?

It is almost like a period I guess. It started as a very bright red. I am not going though a whole lot a pads I know to watch for that. One one and only thing lol. But it is heavy enough every time I pee its pink red in the bowel. Im going though a pad about every hour and a half to two hours. They are regular pads not suppers ot over nighters. I have no cramping except when it started I had the worse pain in my vergina and terrible cramping for two hours then the pain went away as fast as it came. Thanksfor letting me know she will answer at some point and asking the extra questions. Sorry about earlyer please forgive me. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

It is almost like a period i guess. It started out as a very bright red. I am not going though a whole lot a pads i know to watch for that. One one and only thing lol. But it is heavy enough everytime i pee its pink red in the bowel. Im going though a pad about every hour and a half to two hours. They are regular pads not suppers ot over nighters. I have no cramping except when it started i had the worse pain in my vergina and terrible cramping for two hours then the pain went away as fast as it came. Thanksfor letting me know she will answer at some point and asking the extra questions. Sorry bout earlyer please forgive me. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

Also there is not clots at all. I always have had clotting with all my periods.

It is almost like a period i guess. It started out as a very bright red. I am not going though a whole lot a pads i know to watch for that. One one and only thing lol. But it is heavy enough everytime i pee its pink red in the bowel. Im going though a pad about every hour and a half to two hours. They are regular pads not suppers ot over nighters. I have no cramping except when it started i had the worse pain in my vergina and terrible cramping for two hours then the pain went away as fast as it came. Thanksfor letting me know she will answer at some point and asking the extra questions. Sorry bout earlyer please forgive me. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

It could be that your period is just coming early. It happens to all of us at one point or another. I once had 3 periods in one month. Later realized it was due to stress and illness.

I really wish I could say "this is what it is, this is what you do, don't worry", but I can't. I don't know if anyone will be able to. :(

I think at this point we should wait for J_9 and see what she has to say. I'm by no means an OBGYN, or even in the medical field.

As for your apology, no need to be sorry. We had a miscommunication. It happens. The written word is a horrible form of communication, there's too much room for misunderstanding what the person is trying to say. It's water under the bridge, and I too apologize if you took my post the wrong way. :)

It could be that your period is just coming early. It happens to all of us at one point or another. I once had 3 periods in one month. Later realized it was due to stress and illness.

I really wish I could say "this is what it is, this is what you do, don't worry", but I can't. I don't know if anyone will be able to. :(

I think at this point we should wait for J_9 and see what she has to say. I'm by no means an OBGYN, or even in the medical field.

As for your apology, no need to be sorry. We had a miscommunication. It happens. The written word is a horrible form of communication, there's too much room for misunderstanding what the person is trying to say. It's water under the bridge, and I too apologize if you took my post the wrong way. :)

Thanks :) when I was younger I usse to have 6week periods. Later found out I had something called endometreosis. Man that is not spelled right lol. Most people call it endo. It has sense went away thank goodness. When I was a kids periods were the worst thing ever. I was on it more than not. But know that I am almost 30 my body is deciding to normal out a bit.

Thanks :) when i was younger i usse to have 6week periods. Later found out i had something called endometreosis. Man that is not spelled right lol. Most people call it endo. It has sence went away thank goodness. When i was a kids periods were the worst thing ever. I was on it more than not. But know that i am almost 30 my body is deciding to normal out a bit.


To my knowledge Endometriosis doesn't "go away" without treatment. It can keep you from getting pregnant.

Didn't your Doctor explain that to you?

Ok so here is my question. I am tracking my ovulation for the first time. We are really trying to get pregnet. My first day of my ovulation was on thr 5th. So we had intercourse that evening. The next day in the late afternoon i strated bleeding. The only difference is i took top during sex which isnt a normal for me. I am still bleeding today and it is the 8th. This is the first time we have tryed to get pregnent sence our daughter passed away during delivery two years ago. My last day of my ovulation is on the 9th. My periods are normal every 30 days. My last period was on the 21st last month. So i am no whete near dure for my next period. So why would i bleed the next day and for this long? I do have a regular obgyn. I just didnt want to call her if it's stupid worrieing and nothing i needto be seen for. Thanks for listening well reading. Hope u can give some good advice and help


Let me start by saying that I am very sorry for the loss of your daughter. I know how traumatic that can be.

Judy is correct. Endometriosis does not just disappear without treatment.

Ovulation has a window of 24-36 hours before the egg is no longer viable for fertilization. It does not last for days. That is a very common misconception among may women.

Also, if you are trying to become pregnant you should be having intercourse starting a couple days prior to ovulation and following a few days after as well.

As for the bleeding, it could be just an "off" period. We women get them every once in a while out of the blue for no reason whatosever.

Back to ovulation. You said this is your first month tracking it, right? Please know that it can take as long as 6 months or more of actively tracking with ovulation predictor kits as well as daily basal temperatures to get an somewhat accurate ovulation timetable. It can then take as long as a year or more, for some women, of actively trying before actually conceiving.

I skipped right over the part about losing the daughter - I, too, am very sorry and experienced a very similar loss.

So sorry -

Let me start out by saying that I am very sorry for the loss of your daughter. I know how traumatic that can be.

Judy is correct. Endometriosis does not just disappear without treatment.

Ovulation has a window of 24-36 hours before the egg is no longer viable for fertilization. It does not last for days. That is a very common misconception among may women.

Also, if you are trying to become pregnant you should be having intercourse starting a couple days prior to ovulation and following a few days after as well.

As for the bleeding, it could be just an "off" period. We women get them every once in a while out of the blue for no reason whatosever.

Back to ovulation. You said this is your first month tracking it, right? Please know that it can take as long as 6 months or more of actively tracking with ovulation predictor kits as well as daily basal temperatures to get an somewhat accurate ovulation timetable. It can then take as long as a year or more, for some women, of actively trying before actually conceiving.

Thanks so much. I think I'm going to stop tracking and make sure we just have enough sex lol. Tracking ovulation is a pain in the butt:) oh I was treated for my endo I was on lupron depo, depo, non stop brith control to not allow periods and also I have a beautiful 4 year old son. It has been many years sense I have had a LAP down. But I haven't had any of the issues I had back then in forever. I am thinking the old way of trying to get pregnant is what I should do. I am going to keep tracking my first and last day of my periods just so I know when I'm late. You guys are awsome. Thanks for getting back to me. Thanks for the sweets words for our daughter Lela. If my hubby wants me to ask anything else is it OK if I write back? My last period was on the 21st I probably got a second one cause we changed up the way we had encourse. I never thought that I could just be haven a second period. Lol that should have been my first thought. Thank everyone. When we do get pregnant I will send a message to you all. Thanks everyone :)

You sure are welcome to come back any time. You might want to stick around the maybe answer a question or two, help someone else who has lost a child.

Good luck -

You sure are welcome to come back any time. You might want to stick around the maybe answer a question or two, help someone else who has lost a child.

Good luck -

That would be wounderful. I habe a disorder called Eilers-danlos syndrom I have stages 1,2&3 if there is anyone out there with this I would love to talk with them I have lots of info on it and many years of experance having it. Do you know were I would go to to put a post for anyone with EDS or woundering about this syndrom? I would love to be able to help someone or just be there for someone to talk to. Let me know if you know how I do this. That would rock

I agree with Judy, stick around. This site is great, and it's not only about asking questions, although that's how many of us started, but answering as well.

It can be fun, it's a great way to pass on knowledge you have, and it's a great way to help someone that needs that help. We're very much a community here, and we love adding new people to that community.

We also have more chatty forums, and I encourage you to join those as well, it's a great way to get to know some of the people on this site. I came here 4 years ago with a question. I didn't plan to stick around, I just wanted an answer, and that's it. Then I started looking around at some of the questions, answered a few, butted heads with a few people, but ultimately, made friends with the best people I've never met. This is by far the best Q & A site on the internet, in my opinion, and I've checked out many others. I always end up coming back to AMHD. :)

That would be wounderful. I habe a disorder called Eilers-danlos syndrom i have stages 1,2&3 if there is anyone out there with this i would love to talk with them i have lots of info on it and many years of experance having it. Do you know were i would go to to put a post for anyone with EDS or woundering about this syndrom? I would love to be able to help someone or just be there for someone to talk to. Let me know if u know how i do this. That would rock

Usually we wait for someone to ask a question, but we do have discussion forums. The sort of post you're thinking of writing would be best for the discussion area.

Just go to the "ask" link. When you've typed your post select "Forum Community" for you forum, "other member discussions" for your sub forum, and then lastly "Member discussions". :)

Usually we wait for someone to ask a question, but we do have discussion forums. The sort of post you're thinking of writing would be best for the discussion area.

Just go to the "ask" link. When you've typed your post select "Forum Community" for you forum, "other member discussions" for your sub forum, and then lastly "Member discussions". :)

Thanks I will do that. It would be great to meet someone who shares my disorder but it is very rare.