So my boyfriend tyler and I have only been togethr for a few years and I got pregnant 6 months after I moved in. I was mainly attracted to him because of his big heart and our common interest etc but from the get go we had to work on our relationship but and I felt like he was selfish (hes an only child) but I do love him I thought it would be better to date an older guy he's 30 and was pretty responsible. Once I got pregnant I couldn't work and prev laid off id always had a steady jib bad luck with jobs when we met. But he stepped up and paid the bills but was depressed all the time amd made me feel like a bum. I know I was emotionally needy and was prob not as understanding about wjat he was going through as I shouldve been in retrospect though he works graveyard Then after we had our child we moved to a bigger house.. all the sudden he's gone crazy spending all his time with his friends hitting on girls going to strip clubs blowing rent money going to the bars without me I do trust him except I've CAUGHT him doing all these things anf he says he's sick of me nagging him hell do what h# wants but I wouldn't complain as much if he helped me with our baby spent time withus first stopped spending all the money (I have a job now too) etc not to mention a huge prob also which.we don't discuss is he likes evrything separate money wise and also I'm very insecure right nowi gained a lot of weight when I was pregnant and he stares and talks about woman and became good friends with our neigjbor an attractive lady with kids he goes and hangs out with her alone and leaves me witj our child and they hve eachothers numbers but she doesn't seem to want to hang out with me I don't trust her she may have the wrong ideabcuz he's so friendly and when I tell him I don't like it he calls me jealous and crazy.. pls help am I? I love him and want us to be a family but I have anxiety every day because I feel I don't even know him nore his famili#s worried and I tried to leave for a break from it but he begged me to stay.. pls help thank you! He says he loves me and I feel he lost rite now and trying to party because of stress

Get super hot and then tell him you will leave him if he doesn't grow up. Tell him to ditch the neighbor. Love comes and goes, self respect gets broken forever.