So I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months.. everything was perfect until now.. We moved in together at 4 months of dating, a little fast some may say but it felt right.. About 2 months ago I noticed he was looking through my phone... ALOT... when I asked him about it he denied it.. then later admitted to it.. I got over that issue.. then shortly after that he would CONSTANTLY bring up my past.. he wanted to know everything about me and my ex's and I would be honest and tell him and then he would get all pissed off and walk away... from the beginning I have been nothing but honest with him, I told him who I've been with and he was okay with it.. now its really bothering him that I've been with other guys and especially one in particular who is a different race.. he makes me feel bad about it when I know I shouldn't.. its causing a lot of problems in our relationship because I feel like I have to constantly tell him how much I love him and don't care about my past... its getting old.. he also got mad at me because I would not say anything negative about my previous boyfriends... ive changed my cell phone number hoping it would make him more secure, I've deactivated my Facebook account I've made so many changes and its not doing anything... I never go out any more I've gone out 1 time with my friends who came from out of town I was out late but I told him I would be he called me at 4 am and was pissed off I wasn't home... I feel like he's my parent and I have to check in with him.. he was pissed off when I came home to and wouldn't talk to me... I told him he had to leave and I'm not sure what to do at this point.

What to do? First of all, get everyone back on Facebook, tell everyone your phone number, and confront him that you are fed up with his jealousy. Prepare to break up. Jealousy of past loves is going too far, and is indicative of just more and more trouble.

Oh.. and sometimes it's just not a good idea to spill ALL the beans in one year, or two, or even 10. Every relationship needs a little privacy.

Thank you for your response joypulv... I'm just an honest person trying to make our relationship work.. I no now I should not have told him about my past but its not even like I was telling him anything to crazy... he had my password for Facebook and would go on and snoop. He snooped in my phone.. its hard because we live together and beside this we had a great relationship... I'm just so tired of hearing about my past and feeling like I have no privacy..