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babygirl22211
Jul 5, 2012, 10:35 AM
I had sex dec 5-18th with one partner and bled the 11th-13th but very light and bled when he would finger me.. then a new partner on dec 20th-30th.. a conception calculator said I conceived on dec 25-27th.. my due date is Sep 16th, is there any way it could be the guys from the 5-18th?

smoothy
Jul 5, 2012, 10:41 AM
I had sex dec 5-18th with one partner and bled the 11th-13th but very light and bled when he would finger me.. then a new partner on dec 20th-30th.. a conception calculater said i concieved on dec 25-27th.. my due date is Sep 16th, is there any way it could be the guys from the 5-18th?

You have to tell them both... its going to take a DNA test before you know for sure.

Mobley119
Jul 5, 2012, 12:59 PM
When you said you bled do you mean you had a period? If the conce

Mobley119
Jul 5, 2012, 01:04 PM
Conception date is correlated with your due date, then it's probably not likely the first guy is the father. However, your dates could be off and it could have been implantion, so it very well could be the first man. The only way to tell for sure is to do a DNA test. You owe it both to them to tell them both, and if you want the man to be in your child's life you need to make sure it's the right one. If you want child support or anything like that then the man could ask for a DNA test. I don't know what your situation is but I hope everything works out for you and your baby.

babygirl22211
Jul 6, 2012, 06:14 AM
I bled hella light the 11th-13th.. I thought it was my period so I put tampons in and it was so light there was barley any on it.

smoothy
Jul 6, 2012, 06:33 AM
You have roughly a one month period it could have happened... only god knows who the father is as a result... so a DNA test is the only way you will know. After the Baby is born.

babygirl22211
Jul 6, 2012, 06:37 AM
Like they say you are really only 38 weeks because the other 2 weeks that makes 40 was the ovulation or something.. So if I am due Sep 16th, 38 weeks would have been Dec 25th which is when the online conception dates have said I have conceived. But is there any way it could have been before that when I got pregnant?

smoothy
Jul 6, 2012, 07:30 AM
Take the date the doctor gave and go two weeks before and two weeks after that date, anyone you slept with during that month might be the father. Its impossible to be more precise than that until the child is born and DNA testing done..

If you weren't doing a basal temperature chart then you have no idea when your ovulation date was.

babygirl22211
Jul 6, 2012, 07:38 AM
Thank you everyone! So much!